Choices or Molds?
INTJ
The actually signifies Introverted iNtuitive
Thinking Judging, but this needs a little
explanation:
Introverted is aligned not with shyness etc. but
whether the person needs others as an expression of
themselves or gets energy from others. So an
introverted means that they are self-activated.
An Intuitive person means that they believe the
information that they themselves have received from
the internal or imaginative world.
Anyway, the results did not really surprise me. But
it got me to wonder whether I’ve turned out
like that because of the things I’ve done in my
life to date or that some of the trends are inherent.
I looked back at what I assess were significant
decision points and experiences in my life and felt
that some of them had clearly had a life-changing
impact and some were following a preferred path but
some, as a I remember, were rather less significant
at the time or less serious but turned out to be
significant in hindsight.
I certainly think that my degree choice was
significant - I still to this day over quarter of a
century later have people surprised that I chose to
study Theoretical Physics. I am still interested but
realise that my interest is very much at a somewhat
knowledgeable member of the public. But the
scientific outlook still remains. Again a career as a
school teacher, though at this time occupied about a
quarter of my working life (this first quarter) has
left me indelibly marked as having a teacher’s
perspective - and this comes out even today in my
desire to assist people to understand, the importance
and practice of good communication, etc. My personal
decision to follow Christ as an adult, and this is
not meant to be a cliché, was and is still a
life-changing event. This also has imbued me with new
attitudes and outlooks.
There are others, but I wonder where some of the
drivers to make the choices I made came from.
I’m not so sure that everything is inherent -
or “in your genes” as I believe that
there is choice, which no doubt is another
discussion. Did I make such choices because I was
already pre-disposed to that route or was there a
post-event change that shaped me? I’m not sure
- but I’d probably say both, and that means
that there may be a cascade effect that as your make
choices that reinforce outlooks then the next choice
is more likely to go the same direction. But
sometimes I feel that we sense we’re
constrained and make a leap - almost deliberately to
be unexpected (or perverse).
I was intrigued to read some of the perspectives of
an INTJ and several rang very true.