Choices or Molds?
INTJ
The actually signifies Introverted iNtuitive
Thinking Judging, but this needs a little
explanation:
Introverted is aligned not with shyness etc. but
whether the person needs others as an expression of
themselves or gets energy from others. So an
introverted means that they are self-activated.
An Intuitive person means that they believe the
information that they themselves have received from the
internal or imaginative world.
Anyway, the results did not really surprise me. But it
got me to wonder whether I’ve turned out like
that because of the things I’ve done in my life
to date or that some of the trends are inherent. I
looked back at what I assess were significant decision
points and experiences in my life and felt that some of
them had clearly had a life-changing impact and some
were following a preferred path but some, as a I
remember, were rather less significant at the time or
less serious but turned out to be significant in
hindsight.
I certainly think that my degree choice was significant
- I still to this day over quarter of a century later
have people surprised that I chose to study Theoretical
Physics. I am still interested but realise that my
interest is very much at a somewhat knowledgeable
member of the public. But the scientific outlook still
remains. Again a career as a school teacher, though at
this time occupied about a quarter of my working life
(this first quarter) has left me indelibly marked as
having a teacher’s perspective - and this comes
out even today in my desire to assist people to
understand, the importance and practice of good
communication, etc. My personal decision to follow
Christ as an adult, and this is not meant to be a
cliché, was and is still a life-changing event. This
also has imbued me with new attitudes and outlooks.
There are others, but I wonder where some of the
drivers to make the choices I made came from. I’m
not so sure that everything is inherent - or “in
your genes” as I believe that there is choice,
which no doubt is another discussion. Did I make such
choices because I was already pre-disposed to that
route or was there a post-event change that shaped me?
I’m not sure - but I’d probably say both,
and that means that there may be a cascade effect that
as your make choices that reinforce outlooks then the
next choice is more likely to go the same direction.
But sometimes I feel that we sense we’re
constrained and make a leap - almost deliberately to be
unexpected (or perverse).
I was intrigued to read some of the perspectives of an
INTJ and several rang very true.