One Person With Courage
Formal education for me began in 1948.
That process continued until 1966. All during those years I was taught that one
should use the masculine case in phrases such as, "All good
men
should come to the aid of their
country."
That was prior to
the 1970's. With raised consciousness, American's began struggling with the
sexual inequalities which still existed in our country. It was at this time
that it became increasingly inappropriate to use the masculine
case.
In the past twenty-five
years we have adopted many changes. No longer do we have waitresses; we now
have wait persons. Stewardesses became partners with Stewards and now both are
know as Flight Attendants. In most businesses secretaries are now
assistants.
All of this seems
to be our attempt to appropriately and specifically identify men and women in
the workplace and in society. And that is
good.
But from the position of
a teacher of English for nearly 29 years, there is one area where we have not
resolved the changes. Back in the "old days" we were taught to use the
masculine gender. Always use
he
when referring to both men and women. Always use
men
\f0\i0
when making reference to both sexes. Remember "All
men
are created equal"?
And what
about pronouns used in place of the masculine noun? In the 70's the difficulty
began. Instead of
he
some began writing he and
she. Others were concerned about
placing he first and turned it around to
she and
he. Some writers have dropped he and
replaced it with
she.
I
decided on this form:
s/he.
I see it in many publications. It seems to be appropriate and
non-offensive.
Ours is a
language which is alive and vigorous. Someday we will come to a solution and
this awkward transition in our language will be in the
past.
That is the reason the
title of this
Reflections!
uses
person.
In my office I have the quotation, "One
man
with courage is a majority." I don't know who originally said that, but I know
that it is true.
So I have
updated it to "One
person
with courage is a majority." That person can be of either sex. Consider just
two examples of people who exhibited
courage.
Rosa Lee Parks, an
African-American civil right activist triggered the boycott of the Montgomery,
Alabama bus system. You will recall that she refused to give up her seat to a
white passenger on a bus on her trip home from work one day in 1955. She broke
the law which required black citizens to give up their seats in their half of
the bus if all white seats had been occupied. Her action helped bring about the
civil rights movement in the United
States.
Mahatma Gandhi won
freedom for India in the 1040's. He preached nonviolence in his long campaign
for freedom and social reform. He was arrested numerous times and imprisoned
for his courageous
actions.
What motivated these
two individuals and countless others like them to act with extreme courage? Did
they stand against wrongs simply for
self-dignity?
What occurs in
people such as these is the understanding of universal, important truths. With
this understanding they see the need for the eradication of great errors. Not
wrongs directed solely against them, but rather violations of universal truths
directed against a whole body of
people.
These people spark the
imagination of others. They are the light which reveals the suffering of
people, a suffering that violates decency and subjugates people to an
intolerable existence. They saw a person or a system oppressing others, so that
the oppressor(s) could live as they
chose.
In some cases the
oppressors have been wicked. They perceive that the distinction between
themselves and others is a great gulf. They cannot see the suffering endured by
the oppressed. They cannot understand the pain they inflict. They cannot know
the nature of their own wickedness. Therefore their oppressive actions grow
more intolerable until one day,
one person with
courage
\f0\i0 stands and
declares, "No more."
This
person's courage is born from compassion, not from revenge or retaliation. They
have long witnessed the suffering inflicted upon others. They feel the hurt,
the pain which others have endured. While they themselves have also suffered,
their courage comes when they see that others have suffered more greatly than
they, and for
those
they stand with courage.
One
man, one woman with courage is a majority. One with courage challenges the
oppressor. One with courage lights the lamp of
change.
(written
September, 1999)
Posted: Wed - February 1, 2006 at 10:26 PM