Leaving Town
When I was two years of age my parents
left Kansas City and moved to southwest Missouri. They had many ties to Kansas
City, which had been my father's home for a number of years, so we often
returned to see family and
friends.
Occasionally my
father worked there and my mother and I would travel to see him. We most
generally rode the Kansas City Southern Belle. I was fascinated by the train
and hardly ever took my eyes away from the passing scenery. One distinct memory
I have is of a beaver building a dam in a stream that ran parallel to the
railway track.
Having read
about beavers at school I could hardly believe that I had actually seen one at
work creating its natural art
form.
Perhaps man cannot outdo
the wonder of a beaver dam, by the magnificent structure created by mankind in
Kansas City known as Union Depot awed me throughout my childhood. I recall the
smells as we disembarked from the train and the sounds of the Red Caps calling
people to board departing trains. I can feel the texture of the long seats in
the waiting room where we would sit until friends came to pick us
up.
Those were special days of
travel in our country which I later wanted our son to experience. The summer he
was eight years old El Dorado Springs endured unusually hot temperatures. As
the heat wave continued day after day, I came up with an idea during a hot
sleepless night.
When Diana
awakened I told her we were going to leave town. She wanted to know what I was
talking about. I said that I wanted Parrish to have the experience of a train
ride such as i so often had had when I was his age. And since it was so hot, I
thought that that week would be the perfect time for us to take a
trip.
That was fine with her,
but where would we go? "New York CIty," was my
reply.
We had a friend in
Manhattan who had been a student of mine when I taught in El Dorado Springs and
I suggested that we call him and see if it would be possible for us to visit for
a few days.
A visit from us
was fine with him. Tickets were purchased and we left two days later to The Big
Apple.
The ride was long, just
a warning if you ever decide to go that far. But the countryside was beautiful.
I was particularly impressed with the Ohio Valley. We had many things to see
and Parrish truly enjoyed himself for he had hours to read. While I relieved my
childhood and looked out the window, Parrish looked deeply into life through his
books and visited with other
passengers.
He has a way with
people that has always fascinated me. His personality seems to charm people, to
win them; they warm to him. I do not know what his memories of that trip are
like, but I recall him with his reading glasses, his beautiful blond hair, and
the occasional visit with someone; the beautiful smile on his face, the kindness
and friendliness in his voice. I know that I certainly enjoyed "his trip" on
the train! I believe he did
also.
Arriving at Penn Station
in NYC is a memorable time to us. We found a pay phone and called our friend
who said he would be there soon. About forty-five minutes later he found us
among the throngs of people. We climbed the stairs, went through the Penn
Station entrance and found ourselves in the bright sunlight of Manhattan. I was
holding Parrish's hand. It still hurts my fingers thinking of it. His grip
became intensely strong! We had never seen anything like that city. So big, so
busy. Our friend hailed a taxi and we soon found ourselves in a Yellow Cab with
a wild driver such as you often see portrayed in
movies.
He talked continually
about how New York just wasn't like it used to be. He honked at other drivers.
He yelled at them. He drove up on the sidewalk to get around stopped traffic.
What a ride!
Fortunately it
didn't last long and he soon dropped us at Columbus Circle West near the Museum
of Natural History. Reaching our destination our friend had a surprise for us.
He and the person he lived with were "sitting" the other apartment on their
floor. The person who lived there had just left three days earlier for a
vacation in the Bahamas, so we got to live in her apartment while in New York.
It faced the street and afforded us a great view of the
neighborhood.
That trip is
probably the greatest experience we have ever had by leaving town. The
experiences which came about from that vacation have enriched our lives and
given us insight into human relations. They have helped us find truth in our
daily lives at home in El Dorado Springs. It is good to get to leave town if
you can bring something good back with you, something which benefits you and
those with whom you come into contact. Our journeys should teach us, should
enrich us.
(written September,
1999)
Posted: Sat
- January 28, 2006 at 03:37 PM