An All Natural Yard
A few years ago I was in Sacramento,
California on legal business. When my business was completed the legal
assistant drove me back to the law offices. All the time I had been in
Sacramento the weather had been challenging. There was almost nonstop heavy
rain and winds were 60 m.p.h. and more. Our drive that morning found the
weather unchanged.
Listening
to the weather forecast earlier in the day I had heard that they thought by noon
there should be less rain and that the wind would finally calm down. Due to the
intense wind the airport had been closed with all flights to and from Sacramento
cancelled. Even the semitrailer rigs had been
stopped.
Back at the law
office conference room the assistant called the travel agency that the firm used
to see if I would be able to get a flight our that afternoon. Another man, a
former student of mine from Missouri, was also there and we were anxious to
leave "sunny" California for our home
state!
You should have seen
the smile on his face, which I'm certain mirrored mine, when we learned that
they were resuming flights about 2:30 P.M. and that they could get us both on
board. Back to Missouri where we could count on the weather changing
quickly!
Soon after the flight
was confirmed a paralegal assistant entered the conference room and announced
that the rain had stopped and that the sun was breaking through the clouds
occasionally! She suggested we go to lunch at a restaurant on a river boat that
was on the way to the airport. So were were on on
way!
The restaurant was all
she had promised. A beautiful place, quiet and peaceful. The hamburger, fries
and coke that cost my former student nearly $12.00 was just a little dear
however!
He and I sat on one
side of the table with the two lay office employees opposite us. We, the
introverts from Missouri, they, the extroverts from California! They had a lot
to say about the weather and how difficult it was. Then they began to discuss
their yards. The legal assistant was having difficulties with his large dog,
which lived exclusively in the house. During the rainy weather when he walked
her she sometimes strayed into the yard which turned to mud, as his yard had no
grass.
The paralegal did not
have this problem she said, as she had an all natural yard. Now I'm from
Missouri and I thought that everyone who has a yard, had an all natural yard.
It's called grass. But I could tell from the conversation that her use of
natural and mine were different. Rather than appear too much of a hick, I
thought that if I kept listening, eventually I would find out what she meant.
Sure enough, I was right. Her all natural yard was soil covered with pine
needles.
To me the best all
natural yard is still good old green grass, with some flowers thrown in for good
measure. As I sit at my computer writing I look out my north window and down
upon our yard. I love to see the myriad colors in the flowers. This view
reminds me of another from long
ago.
In 1957 my parents
purchased a large house which had been built by a local doctor in the
mid-1930's. Of the four bedroom one which was upstairs was very large. Somehow
I became the occupant of all that space. It had windows on three sides. The
north windows of that room looked out upon our spacious back yard. We had many
flower gardens and huge climbing roses. My father and I spent many summer hours
working in the gardens and tending the roses. I use to love to look down in the
evening hours when he would be in the
yard.
My father had a severe
hearing loss. He, his father, and his two brothers all were deaf to varying
degrees. His hearing loss made communication a challenge and without doubt
molded his life-style. He spent a great deal of time reading in the yard during
the summer evenings. Always when I found him sitting in his lawn chair with his
reading material, I would see Miss Melody, our cat, asleep on his
lap.
If he was not reading he
would be sitting in the grass. Each year he declared war on the dandelions. He
never won, but from him I caught the character trait of determination. He kept
meeting the challenge--he never gave into the
enemy.
Our friend, deCoucy,
has taken up my father's war. Unlike him, however, deCoucy, our big dog, eats
the enemy! We don't know why, but he spends his entire time in the yard eating
the dandelions. Fortunately our yard yields him a great feast each
day.
Also akin to my father is
deCoucy's love of our flower gardens. he loves to sniff through the many
varieties of flowers.
He would
have loved to visit those beautiful creations of my father and I know, had they
known each other, they could have joined in the war against the enemy, Father
digging them up, deCoucy swallowing them down! In Missouri we love an all
natural yard.
Posted: Mon - December
26, 2005 at 04:17 PM