FRIDAY:
Our plans were for me to go up on the train for
the day, while hubby would drive up after he got off work. I biked from my house
to the Van Nuys Amtrak station, a matter of 6.5 miles.
And yes, I was VERY nervous after my heart procedure a week before. I left
myself an entire hour and a half just in case I had to call a cab! BUT -- I made
the trip in 50 minutes flat, and was able to carry on a normal conversation at
the end! I was barely breathing hard.
The
train trip itself was fun; a rare treat in these days of cars and aircraft. I
got a cup of coffee in the cafe car, just because I could :) ; and enjoyed the
view of the back-country ranches (there are still a few around). From Ventura to
Carpinteria, the train runs almost by the
water's edge, and the view of the Pacific was fantastic.
In Santa
Barbara by noon, I stopped at Enterprise Fish
Co. for lunch, then biked downtown to Art
Essentials, and to the public library to check my email and blog
comments. Then I went to our motel, the Franciscan
Inn, and checked in. (They have fresh-baked oatmeal cookies in the
lobby every afternoon, if you're fast enough, and a basket of apples if you're
not. :-) )
I went for a long bike ride
by the beach in the late afternoon. Hubby arrived about 7:30; then it was a walk
over to Enterprise Fish again for dinner, since it was close and we were both
very hungry (despite
apples.)
SATURDAY:
Breakfast at the original Sambo's (which is also the last Sambo's due to
political correctness...) We could have had a continental breakfast at the inn,
but we both like a more substantial morning meal. Afterwards, Hubby wanted to
walk through downtown S.B. I asked to go to see "The Polar Express" and got a
"We'll see; we could do that in L.A." I asked to stop in a bike store, intending
to see if a shop carried a biking knee brace for my right knee's worn patella,
and to stop at the library to check my
email.
Well, I DID get to stop at 3
different bike shops, none of which carried anything remotely like knee braces.
And I got to the library. We also made it to the beach later (briefly) and we
did go on the carousel. But also -- well, we're in a couples recovery group for
a reason. Some of the reason also showed up. Not his fault, nor my fault -- but
together, sometimes, it just doesn't
work...
He made us reservations for
dinner at The
Palace Cafe, and the food at the Palace was good, the service was
excellent, though I wish I hadn't chosen to try soft-shell crab. I'm sure the
preparation was superb, but I discovered that don't like the stuff at all.
Fortunately, we'd gotten a sampler platter, so I didn't go hungry with coconut
shrimp and salmon Ponchitarain available. The manager (head waiter?) had that
Louisiana mix of Southern/French accent, and a Zydeco band was
playing.
And that was the last straw.
Hearing that accent, and hearing the band, reminded me of Corpus Christi and the
similar Southern/Hispanic accent mix, and I just broke down crying. It's been so
long since I've been home, and everything - the beach, the food, the music, the
accents - was close enough to remind but painfully far from the real thing. And
I was in pain - my hip and knee hurt from miles of walking on
concrete.
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I
pulled myself together and we packed it in. I didn't sleep well; I'd been taking
Aleve for the arthritis pain but that's not an option with the medications I'm
on now for my heart condition. And I'm back here in NoHo today trying but not
succeeding to get some of my homework done for my class Thursday before the
couples recovery meeting this
afternoon.
Damn, I just want to pack up
and go home [Imagine thick hybrid Southern/Hispanic accent here. BTW, usually I
have a General American accent that you could place regionally only by a few
idioms].
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