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The careful and loving report on Adrianus has moved me to
set down a few memories of Cornelius. And added incentive was
Corrine Taylor's comment to me, when requesting family in formation,
"We really know very little about Cornelius." My immediate
impulse was to say, "Oh wow...and he was one of the best
ones!"
Cornelius was always a very handsome man: medium height (although two of his sons, Fred and Nick, were well over 6 ft. tall), well built with massive shoulders, twinkling blue eyes, a thick mop of snow-white hair. He had an infectious grin, puckish sense of humor, and a booming hearty laugh. He remained physically active until the summer before his death. Each summer he carefully tended a large "Victory Garden," doing all the work himself, and at age 75 could still kick his foot higher than his head. I didn't know Cornelius well until he came to live with us, in Homewood, after Gertrude's is death in 1942. Although I had seen him several times a year from my earliest days, his severe hearing loss prevented any real conversation. We began to communicate after he was fitted with a hearing aid. (Which, with a wink at me, he always surreptitiously turned off whenever my mother came into the room!) Those earliest days in Homewood most have been very hard for him after Gertrude's death. He was surrounded by exclusively female company all day long, until my father came home the night. But he gradually developed a routine: working in the garden during the morning, listening to the White Sox games in the afternoon. One day a week he went into Chicago, visited his grandchildren, had lunch at Bergof's, and always went to the Stop and Shop to bring home a treat (usually Speccalassie). At Christmas the treat was always the largest possible Edam cheese which, scorning the use of a schnittlekase (?...cheese knife) he carefully pared into a mound of delicious, paper-thin slices. I never tired of hearing him talk about "the old days."
Cornelius lived to see me married, gradually grew used to the unpleasant fact that I had married a Cub fan who was half-Scandinavian. I'm sorry he didn't live to know his first great grandchild, our Matt, who was born less than a year after his death. Mary V. Colburn |
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