New Garden Friend

Published Bi-Weekly Issue 2012 - 2                                                                  February 6, 2012


 


In This Issue

 

  1.  Caring

  2.  Reducing Your Carbon Footprint

  3.  Religious Education

  4.  Choir Fest

  5.  Youth Social Concerns

  6.  Social Concerns

  7.  Other Considerations

  8.  Spring Sale

  9.  Buon Pasta

10.  Looking Ahead at New Garden

11.  Speech by Matt Hoh

12.  FGC Gathering

 

1. Caring

 

Please hold this friend in the Light: Fred Cothern.

If you would like to participate in the Meeting's care for him, you may contact the meeting office or Caring Friends coordinators:

Carol Cothern (coordinator) ccothern@triad.rr.com or 852-6190

Tom Lassiter (cards)  Tom@Lassiter.com or  299-6440
Janet Inmon (meals) jwinmon@triad.rr.com or 632-0857.

 

This week we remember:

John Coltrane, who died February 11, 2001;

Mary Gray Zimmerman, who died February 12, 2011;

IIse Gutzwiller (Patricia Gutzwiller’s mother), who died February 16, 2011;

Cindy Labell (Bob and Reba Benbow’s daughter), who died February 19, 2009;

Lella Smith, who died February 22, 2007.

  If you would like a loved one remembered in this way, contact the Meeting office, 292-5487 or newgardoff@aol.com.

 

We would like to express our thanks to Caring Friends for the beautiful, handmade afghan and also thank Friends for the many generous gifts and well-wishes celebrating the arrival of our daughter.    Megan Warrick & Martin Khamala

 

2. Reducing Your Carbon Footprint

 

Do's of Pest Control

 

Do ask questions and find the answers.

How can you safely solve your pest problems? The key is to be willing to ask questions. Learning about the pests you have and options that are available to control specific pests is the first step.

 

Try pest prevention first.

   Remove sources of food, water and shelter.

Store food in sealed plastic or glass containers. Garbage containing food scraps should be placed in tightly covered trash cans. Remove garbage regularly from your home.

   Fix leaky plumbing and don't let water accumulate anywhere in the home. Don't let water collect in trays under your house plants or refrigerator. Don't leave pet food and water out overnight.

   Clutter provides places for pests to breed and hide and makes it hard to get rid of them. Get rid of things like stacks of newspapers, magazines, or cardboard.

   Close off places where pests can enter and hide. For example, caulk cracks and crevices around cabinets or baseboards. Use steel wool to fill spaces around pipes.      Cover any holes with wire mesh.

   Learn about the pests you have and options to control them.

   Check for pests in packages or boxes before carrying them into your home.

 

Do safely and correctly use pesticides.

   Keep pets and children away from areas where pesticides have been applied.

   After preventative steps have been taken, you can use baits as a first line of chemical defense against insects or rodents. These are often effective and can be used with low risk of exposure to the pesticide, as long as they are kept out of the reach of children and pets.

 

The above is from www.epa.gov. 

 

3.  Religious Education

 

Luke and Jesus’ Life. From now through February, Bill Eagles and Sally Shipley (and perhaps the occasional guest) will lead an examination of the Gospel of Luke, the New Testament book with the most beautiful language. We gather in the Brotherhood Room, with the Brotherhood Class, each Sunday at 9:45. Please come.

February 12: Luke 22: 32-43, Jesus: Witness for Peace

February 19: Luke 23: 32-43, Salvation and

   Forgiveness: the Cross

February 26: Luke 24: 1-12, The Living God

 

First Day Forum, 9:45 AM, Sundays, in the parlor

February 12: “Serving a Jail Sentence Fifty Years Ago for Civil Rights Actions,” a discussion with Mary Abu-Saba.

 

Vulnerable honesty groups at New Garden: If you are interested in learning more about, or helping to form a vulnerable honesty group at New Garden, please let Barton Parks know at bapjr@bellsouth.net. I believe we have 2 folks interested and if we get to 4, we are in business. Could be the start of something very interesting and beneficial. See the Jan 18th mid-week notes for detailed information on these groups and how they might work for us.  Ellen Kepchar

 

4.  Choir Festival

 

New Garden Friends, Persimmon Grove AME, and Collins Grove UMC will be having a joint service here on Sunday, 2/19/12,11:00 AM followed by a carry in meal in Fellowship Hall. We need volunteers to help in the kitchen with set up and clean up. If you would like to volunteer please call Selma Taylor at (336) 317-5959.

 

5.  Youth Social Concerns

 

In response to the interest of many New Garden youth in volunteer and service opportunities, a group of high school Young Friends has formed a Youth Social Concerns Committee.

   This is a committee for young friends in grades 5 through 12. The committee is working to bring awareness to problems our community faces on both a local and international scale, as a means of better engaging and incorporating youth in service and volunteering. We want to be able to have fun while working together to make a difference in our community.  

   If you are interested in being a part of this committee, or have ideas for us to consider, please contact Katie Rowlett at krowlett@greensboroday.org. Thank you!

                                  Katie Rowlett

 

6.  Social Concerns

 

Greensboro Organizing (GO) is the name of a new non-profit being organized in Greensboro by a coalition of Christian, Jewish and Moslem faith communities, schools and local non-profit organizations. It will be affiliated with the Industrial Areas Foundation (IAF), a 60-year old international social justice organization with seven affiliates in N.C., including CHANGE in Winston-Salem.

   The Social Concerns Committee has been discussing the possibility of New Garden Meeting joining GO for almost a year.

   The mission of GO will be to create social change to help low and middle income people in Greensboro.

   There will be several opportunities to learn more about GO in February:

Adult Forum - Sunday, Feb. 19, - Judith Dancy, retired pastor of Winston-Salem Friends will talk about Winston-Salem Friends’ work with CHANGE.

Attend one of these two Orientations on the work of IAF:

Thursday, Feb. 23, 7 - 8:30 pm, Genesis Baptist Church, 2812 E. Bessemer Ave.

Saturday, Feb. 25, 10 - 11:30 am, Unity Church, 1935 Opal Dr.

   For more information, call Mary Louise Smith at 336-392-3055. Mary Louise will also arrange for transportation to orientation meetings if needed.

 

Please continue to support the on-going FOOD DRIVE sponsored by FaithAction International House and the Servant Center to help alleviate food insecurity facing many immigrant communities in this area.  Members of the Social Concerns Committee deliver the food once a week, usually on Mondays.

 

7. Other Considerations

 

The North Carolina Yearly Meeting Weekend of Wellness Women’s Retreat will be held February 24 to 26, 2012, at Quaker Lake Camp, Climax, NC. Cost for the weekend is $60.00 per person, meals and lodging included. There will be hiking, sewing, Bible study, cooking demonstrations, art creations, a Tea Party, and other activities. Register by February 20. For more information, call 674-2321 or the Yearly Meeting at 292-6957.

 

The North Carolina Yearly Meeting 2012 Mid-Year Gathering for Worship and Business will be held on Saturday, March 3, 2012, at Quaker Lake Camp, Climax, NC. This is a one-day event, 9:30 AM – 4:30 PM. Registration cost is $20.00 per person. Deadline for registration is February 24, 2012. Contact the Yearly Meeting, 292-6957, for more information.

 

A Two-Day Undoing Racism Workshop will be held at Saint Paul Baptist Church, 1309 Larkin Street, on Friday-Saturday, March 9-10, 2012. This workshop provides an understanding of what racism is, where it comes from and how it can be undone. The training is facilitated by representatives of the People's Institute for Survival and Beyond based in New Orleans, LA. For additional information and registration forms, please contact Jennifer Schaal at (336)-656-1360.

 

Family Promise (GIHN)
A recent needs assessment by Family Promise yielded the following results:
   Guilford County Schools identified # of homeless children in 2011-2012 school-year 1,859
   Wesley Long case workers seek shelter for an average of 7-10 mothers with newborns/ WEEK
   Women's Hospital: 3 / week mothers with newborns
   Interactive Resources Center case workers seek shelter for 2-3 families with children/week and have to send cases to Thomasville.
   Winston/Forsyth Salvation Army is no longer taking cases from Guilford due to overcrowding.
   Pathways (which accepts children) has a 12 week waiting list currently.
   Family Promise has made significant progress with their fund raising since their closure last Spring. They have raised $50,000. to date and have a number of outstanding grant applications as well as other grant proposals in the planning stages. They are working hard to be able to reopen the program. The annual budget for Family Promise is $220,000.
   Volunteers are needed to help with committees and with upcoming fund-raisers. Contact me if you are interested. Phyllis Ott, who@triad.rr.com

 

High Point University Cultural Enrichment Series Finch Lecture Features: Dr. Stanley Hauerwas, Monday, March 19, 4:30 PM, Phillips Hall, Francis Auditorium.

 

8. Spring Sale

Donations for the Spring Sale,

held in March,

are now being accepted in Norvell Hall.

 

9. Buon Pasta

 

BUON PASTA!

 

The High School Young Friends would like to invite the meeting community to the 9th annual Buon Pasta on Saturday, February 25th.  Come relax by candle light to the sounds of live guitar and partake of a three course, Italian style meal served and prepared by our youth group members. Please come out and support the youth of the meeting and have fun while we play restaurateurs.

We must have all reservations no later than Thursday, February 23rd, so that we are fully prepared to serve you.  Below is a menu and reservation form that we ask you to fill out and return if you would like to participate.  

 

The cost is $23 per person.

 

BUON PASTA RESERVATION FORM:

 

Name: ___________________________

 

Number in party (limit to 6): _________

 

Seating time (please check one):

Check here if this is a take-out order: _____

Take out will be ready at 5:30 or whatever time you check/request.  

 

________ 5:30 PM         ________6:15 PM         ________ 7:00 PM         ________ 7:30 PM

 

________We’ll select a time for your party

 

*Note:  For each section, Appetizer, Main Course and Dessert, the number of items needs to add up to the total number in your party. For example, if someone in your party does not want an Appetizer, please check the “No Appetizer line.”

 

Appetizer (specify how many desired):

       _____Antipasto plate-vegetarian

                  _____ Antipasto plate with meat

                  _____ Hot Spinach & Artichoke Dip with chips

                  _____ No Appetizer                            

 

Main Course (specify how many desired):

                  _____ Eggplant Parmesan w/Spaghetti

                  _____ Lasagna – Meat option

                 _____ Lasagna – Vegetarian Option

                  _____ Chicken Parmesan w/Spaghetti

 

Dessert (specify how many desired):

                  _____ Tiramisu

                  _____ Chocolate Brownie Sundaes

                  _____ Chocolate Mousse

                  _____ No Dessert

 

Drink options will be water, coke, sprite, sweet tea, and various flavors of coffee.

Childcare is available, Please check in with Jeff for details about this option.

 

10. Looking Ahead at New Garden

 

Monthly Meeting

Monthly Meeting for Business

Sunday, March 4 , 1:00 PM.

 

Monthly Meeting Carry-in Meal

Sunday, March 4 , 12:00 PM.

 

Meeting on Ministry and Counsel

Wednesday, February 29 , 7:00 PM.

 

Committees

Finance and Stewardship

Tuesday, February 21, 7:00 PM.

 

Quaker Relations

Tuesday, March 6, 7:15 PM.

 

House Committee

Wednesday, March 14, 6:30 PM.

 

Social Concerns

Wednesday, March 14, 7:00 PM.

 

Choir

Adult Choir Rehearsal

Wednesdays, 6:00 PM.

 

Circles

Louetta Knight Gilbert Circle

Will meet in the Brotherhood Room

Tuesday, February 14, 2:00 PM.

 

Groups

Poetry Group

The first and third Mondays, 12:15 PM, in the parlor. All are welcome.

 

The Course in Miracles

Sundays, 7:00 PM. Newcomers are welcome.

 

The Meditation Group

Mondays, 7:30 PM.

 

Walking Meditation

Wednesdays, 7:00 PM. Open to all.

 

First Day

Silent Meeting for Worship

Sundays, 9:00 AM, in the Worship Room.

 

First Day Classes for Youth

Sundays, 9:30 AM.

 

First Day Forums

Sundays, 9:45 AM, in the parlor (#110).

 

The Brotherhood Class

Sundays, 9:45 AM, in the Brotherhood Room (#111).

 

Coffee/Fellowship Time

Sundays, 10:40 AM, in Friendship Hall.

 

Semi-programmed Meeting for Worship

Sundays, 11:00 AM, in the worship room.

 

Youth Groups

The Middle School Young Friends (5th & 6th grade)

Sundays, 5:00 PM.

 

Middle School Young Friends (7th & 8th grade) 

Sundays, 5:00 PM.

 

The High School Young Friends

Sundays, 5:00 PM.

 

The High School Young Friends Whine and Cheese

Wednesdays, 6:00 PM for dinner.

Wednesdays, 7:15 PM for discussion.

 

Social Outreach

Meal for Urban Ministry’s Weaver Center

First Tuesday each month.

Prepare a meal for Weaver Center.

Gather at New Garden, 6:15 PM.

 

11. Speech by Matt Hoh

 

 

Please join us for a

“Community Forum:  Bring Our War Dollars Home!

Matt Hoh to Speak, February 20th

Elon Law School, Greensboro

 

US military strategist Matthew Hoh, who resigned over US war policy in Afghanistan, will speak at a Community Forum addressing:  US budget priorities, transitioning from a war economy to a peace economy, growing economic inequality in this country, and new ways to support economic activity and job–creation locally.

The Greensboro Community Forum’s sponsors include the American Friends Service Committee –Carolinas, the Fund For Democratic Communities, New Garden Friends Meeting, Elon University Law School’s ACLU Chapter, and North Carolina Peace Action.  Matthew Hoh also works closely with FCNL’s legislative associates on foreign policy.

The “Community Forum – Bring Our War Dollars Home!” event will take place February 20th at Elon University’s School of Law, Room 207, 201 N. Greene St., Greensboro, NC.  Events include:

   6:00pm          Opening reception and dialogue (Including opportunities for interviews with the press)

   7:00pm          Community Forum including a presentation by Hoh and brief statements by Greensboro  community people relating

the U.S. war budget to urgent local economic needs.

 

Matthew Hoh will also speak in Raleigh, NC on February 20th, at 11:00 AM, NC Legislative Building, Auditorium, 16 West. Jones Street.  Hoh will be joined by Congressman Walter Jones of NC in calling for an end to the war in Afghanistan.

 

More about Matthew Hoh

 Matthew Hoh is a Senior Fellow at the Center for International Policy and is the former Director of the Afghanistan Study Group, a network of foreign and public policy experts and professionals advocating for a change in US strategy in Afghanistan.  A former State Department official, Matthew resigned in protest from his post in Afghanistan over US strategic policy and goals in Afghanistan in September 2009.

Prior to his assignment in Afghanistan, Matthew served in Iraq; first in 2004-5 in Salah ad Din Province with a State Department reconstruction and governance team and then in 2006-7 in Anbar Province as a Marine Corps company commander.   When not deployed, Matthew worked on Afghanistan and Iraq policy and operations issues at the Pentagon and State Department from 2002-8. 

Matthew’s writings have appeared in the Atlanta Journal Constitution, Defense News, the Huffington Post, USA Today, the Wall Street Journal and the Washington Post.  The Council on Foreign Relations has cited Matthew’s resignation letter from his post in Afghanistan as an Essential Document.  In 2010 Matthew was named the Ridenhour Prize Recipient for Truth Telling.

 

Please join us!

  If your social concerns group would like to have a literature table at the event, please contact Susan Ikenberry or Ann Lennon at AFSC–Carolinas, (336) 854–0633    http://afsc.org/office/greensboro-nc.

 

12. FGC GATHERING

 

You are invited to attend the FGC Gathering “All God’s Critters Got a Place in the Choir” in Kingston, Rhode Island, July 1 to 7, 2012.

Read on to learn about:

2012 Workshops
Gathering Fees
NEW Half Gathering Option
Financial Aid
Registration Dates

2012 Workshops

Many Friends tell us that their workshop is the spiritual heart of their Gathering experience. Short descriptions of the 57 workshops offered at the 2012 FGC Gathering are now available. As always, we are blessed with a wide variety of workshop topics and workshop leaders. Adults and high school participants attend one workshop that meets Monday-Friday mornings. (photo by Joya Manesseh)

Start your discernment now about which workshop to choose. Long descriptions will be online by March 1, and I encourage you to read the long descriptions for your favorite workshops before making your final choices.

Everyone who registers during Early Registration (April 4-15) has equal access to workshop choices. Since assignments will be made by lottery at the end of Early Registration, all early registrants will be asked to indicate an alternate workshop.


2012 Gathering Fees

Fees for the 2012 FGC Gathering are now published on our website. (photo by Joann Clapp Fullagar)

The basic fee for an adult is $718 (shared room without air conditioning and three meals a day).

Housing options include:

NEW Half-Gathering Option

Unable to attend the whole Gathering? Consider registering for half!

For the first time, a limited number of adults may register for half the Gathering (July 1-4, or July 4-7). Half-Gathering registrants may choose on campus housing and a meal plan, and they may choose from workshops open to part-time registrants. Read more details about the Half-Gathering option.

Financial Aid

If the price of Gathering is beyond of your budget, scholarship aid and volunteer workgrants are available.

All Friends are encouraged to first ask their meeting for financial assistance. However, do not wait to register for the Gathering because you have not heard from your meeting! Apply for all Gathering scholarships when you register. (photo by Colby Abazs)

This year, we have a special pool of scholarship money targeted at young adults and families. This means that when our standard scholarship funds are fully disbursed, we will be able to continue to provide assistance to families and young adults.

Young adults from Philadelphia Yearly Meeting: Check the Gathering website in March to see what special financial support is available.

Travel Grants for Western First-Timers: Thanks to special funding, $200 travel grants are available for to Friends from the west who are attending the Gathering for the first time.

Scholarships and travel grants are awarded based on registration date, so register early if you need financial aid to attend.

Registration Dates

Early Registration is April 4-15. Everyone who registers within this period will have equal access to workshops and housing, and priority consideration for financial assistance.

Registration will temporarily close from April 16-20. Lotteries will occur for oversubscribed workshops or housing options. All early registrants will be informed of their assignments.

Standard Registration starts April 21. Workshops and financial assistance will be available on a first-come, first-served basis.
Encourage a Friend to attend. Forward this email AND encourage them to sign up for emails updates like this one.

                                    From Ellen Kepchar