FriendsReunited and the Ridiculous


In which Mike ponders the nature of public truth

Browsing idly on FriendsReunited (is there any other way to browse?) I came across a name I barely remembered. The member notes associated?

Left school with no examinations and got into trouble with the Police soon after. Fortunately I was befriended by a reformed lesbian biker and we are now happily married with five children.
I discovered thr Lord a few years ago and I am now a trainee priest in ------------. Would love to hear from friends at school - You won't believe how much I've changed!

Now, I know my notes for a while said I was herding spleen whales in Fiji, but that's just harmless fun. This is much nearer the edge -- it's just possible that this chap is absolutely dead serious. My inclination is always to laugh amusedly at this kind of thing, but so often I end up finding that I'm just laughing at what genuinely occurred, which is a much less comfortable moment than a self-congratulatory cackle at the pinnacle of normality I have attained compared to the various freaks the world has to offer; besides which it often offends, and that's only rarely my intent.

So how far should I believe this? Details of place, as omitted above, seem to lend an air of credibility - fakes are never specific, it's always "someone's friend" and so on -- but I can't help but think that the school I was at scarcely equipped one for the company of 'reformed' lesbian bikers. Depends, I suppose, exactly how one means 'reformed'. Besides which, they'd have had to start breeding pretty swiftly to get the count up to five, unless there're multiple births involved. Oh, all is confusion!

... which was probably the intent, in which case it's succeeded. But maybe....

If everyone had an easily-locatable internet presence, this sort of thing would be easy to authenticate. And humorous though those "I am now a fish in Botswana" entries on FR are, I can't help but think about how far they rely on you already knowing the person as a bit of a joker, or someone on the edge likely to convert to a monotheistic religion overnight, in order to know how they're to be read. I'm not sure whether this proves that the Author isn't really Dead at all, or whether it demonstrates that s(he) has never really been around in the first place.

... and another thing, why don't my puzzlements get more profound than this? I've had a good night's sleep and some healthful tidying and pottering, and feel mildly cheated.

Back to Lethem.

Posted: Sun - September 28, 2003 at 06:02      


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