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Once a large impressive kingdom, Malians are very proud of their culture and history. Extended families are very important to the Malian society. One's honor and dignity directly correlates with that of the family. Polygamy is still practiced, as is female circumcision (even though it is forbidden by the government). Social customs (such as maintaining social harmony through joking) that go back for centuries are still practiced. The people are extremely friendly and warm. People greet each other in Bambara, asking how their family is, children, parents, and inquiring about the health or well-being of all. Hospitality is also stressed, with families providing meals for guests that they themselves could not afford to eat. If someone's car does not start or you are having difficulty carrying something, you will find plenty of eager helpers. Children in MaliChildren here
begin working at a very early age, whether it is caring for their younger
siblings, household chores, or even quite physical labor. It is quite
common to see young girls carrying their youngest sibling, strapped
to their back with a wide strip of cloth. Even the youngest children
begin practicing the amazing (to me) feat of balancing everything on
their heads. First they may steady the load with their hand, but soon
carry it with ease. Young girls also begin helping with household chores,
such as doing the wash by hand, pounding the millet to make flour, etc.
Like their mothers, the girls seem to work longer hours than the male
counterparts. Boys also do physical labor that would not be even thought
of in the US. But, especially in cases where a parent has died, the
children are expected to carry the load. There is not much to be found in the
line of pre-made toys. You will find boys playing with homemade toys,
such as a plastic spool-like thing with wire, allowing the spool to
roll as a wheel. Tires are a popular toy, with a stick guiding the tire
as it rolls. I've also seen some creative toy cars or similar items
made entirely from junk. I haven't seen girls playing much though. Soccer
is a favorite pastime of the boys. I often hear the children (boys)
playing soccer in the lot next door. Despite a few obstacles such as
large rocks and cinder blocks, the boys have found a good place to play
the national sport. A much better location than playing on a street,
where an inaccurate kick might send the ball down the open sewers on
either side of the streets! Click here to see more photos of people
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