Thankful?
Thankful?
Thankful?

More thoughts about being thankful.

San Diego is a busy city. People are on the move. Even the street people, homeless of all ages, shapes, and skin color appear to have somewhere they need to be. It is not as busy as other places I’ve been this time of year where tourism is a driving force of the economy. Today, while others shop and scurry about I have found a mostly quiet place to sit and be still.

We are taking a day to rest while on holiday.(1) We have learned that resting is an important part of time away from routine work. Even when wanting to see or do so much we structure our time as casually as possible so we are not so tired on the plane ride home. It is a change of thinking for me. And I think this is exactly what being thankful is: a change in thinking. Maybe this is why we westerners only celebrate this once a year. It has little to do with the Pilgrims and Native Americans, corn and pumpkin pie, football and black Friday.(2) Though preached across the centuries it feels like Americans, specifically, and human beings in general can’t handle more than one day to be thankful as a way of existence. Religious language calls this sin, attachment, or karma.(3)

So, as I have done in the past I’m thinking about living a thankful, grateful life. Earlier this month I helped celebrate the life of someone who I believe lived a thankful, grateful life. Rev. Mary Beth Guy was not a saint of the Church. She was a hard working, plain spoken, servant leader of the Church who expected people to help themselves even as they were being helped, and to go and do likewise. She worked to better the quality of life for the elderly in her community, congregation, and anyone that came into her sphere of life. Mary Beth helped sand my rough edges when I was fresh out of seminary. As I have said or written before, I am thankful, lucky that Rev. Mary Beth Guy and Rev. Will Van Nostrand helped me learn ministry those first two years out of seminary. But do I live a thankful life.

The answer is mostly no. As much as it would comfort me and those that know me to read that I think I live a thankful life, I am aware that from day to day I don’t give being thankful much thought. I do think I am gracious, a form of grateful, but I’m not sure that has anything to do with being thankful. Outside the hotel in San Diego the park was home to the houseless, but I didn’t go out and offer a thanksgiving feast of fish tacos or muffins or hot coffee. I am thankful for my companion, but did not show compassion that day. There are days that include compassion for the less fortunate. What a nice way to say poor or at least poorer than I am any given day. On Thanksgiving day the thought that floats in my head is, “to whom much is given, much is required. The problem with this phrase is the word given. Most folks in my income bracket and in close proximity on either side don’t think or feel that they have been given anything. My parents are financially comfortable and would not describe their situation as having been ‘given’ nor would my mother-in-law who lives much simpler than I do, but would not say she has been given anything other than another day to enjoy her children and grand-children having survived cancer twice and a heart attack. So maybe the phrase is, “with great power comes great responsibility. Then we must parse the thought of power and responsibility.

With economics comes a level of power and maybe that is where I find myself: trying to understand the power that I have and what I am to do with it to benefit others. I understand where I am in the church hierarchy, that we claim to not have, and what power means in that setting. According to all the news reports since Friday last , those with economic power have taken care of themselves first which is exactly what we are told the economy needs. Shop. Buy. Charge. Consume electronics, food, clothing, smokes, booze, life, consume.(4) In this technology revolution, like that of the industrial revolution, things change every three to five years and the strides along the change continuium are massive. To stay current means spending or be left behind. What if we applied that same theory to learning or making sure that everyone is pulled forward as we race toward an unknown future.

I want for this post to have more clarity, but can’t find a way to end that doesn’t do what I hate films to do. I don’t need a ribbon and bow happy ending. I prefer films to end in such a way that asks me to do the work. That is probably why I preach, keynote, and write the way I do. So, I’m thinking about being, living a thankful life. Good luck in your search.


Note
1. I use the term holiday intentionally. Borrowed from European thought it best describes what I do now rather than vacation. With cell phone and laptop at the ready, my office is always with me which makes me the worst kind of workaholic minister who unplugs because I wish it. I’m not getting away from something. I am working at a different pace and indulging in time to not work, but rather take in the USS Midway museum, walk along the bay front, or sit quietly and listen to my companion breathe while she naps. Time is the indulgence of holiday. On vacation time counts down until you must return to the world.
2. A strange though understandable term from business life to describe how the holiday season moves the financial books from loss to profit. But in our politically correct world this seems an awkward term save the fact that it is one of the few phrases that includes the word black that is meant to be positive. Is that why it has survived the what George Carlin calls the softening of language to dehumanize bad stuff?
3. Thanks to wikipedia you can easily locate the seven deadly sins as defined in Catholic church dogam. “Listed in the same order used by both Pope Gregory the Great in the 6th Century AD, and later by Dante Alighieri in his epic poem The Divine Comedy, the seven deadly sins are as follows: Luxuria (extravagance, later lust), Gula (gluttony), Avaritia (greed), Acedia (sloth), Ira (wrath, more commonly known as anger), Invidia (envy), and Superbia (pride). Which one of these is not indulged on Thanksgiving day?
4. Maybe this is why foreign countries and terrorists dislike, condemn, hate Americans. Have we taken seriously of the phrase with great power comes great responsibility?

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