The Limited Adventures of Fun Mom
I'm probably the only mom who groans when the
children want a backyard picnic. It doesn't really make much more work, if any
... if I make sandwiches and cut up fruit and veggies, why
should
it matter to me if it's served around the table or on a blanket out back? And
if it is so very
exciting for the children, why not say yes?
And yet, for whatever reason, I usually say,
"not
today..." -- not a flat
no,
that would be too Mean
Mom ... an ambiguous
"Not
Today" at least keeps the door open a
crack
for Fun
Mom. But eventually mom realizes that her
"not todays"
rarely
turn in to "yes, today" ... and worse yet, the children figure that out. So
yesterday Mean
Mom swallowed her anti-picnic bias and let
Fun
Mom out for a bit. And then photographed
it, for proof.
LittleD, Leia, Emidala, and Tobi-Wan, all
squinting in the too-bright evening sun, having a glorious Pizza Picnic on the
deck. Gark was out on his "date" with Dad, and Buzz was inside, resting.
Fun
Mom ate her pizza, the leftover remnants
after the fun ended, in front of the computer...
(there is no photographic record of
that).
Posted: Sat
- May 21, 2005 at 02:55 PM