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The Wiseman-Fusilier Wedding

 

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See Kijana sing her original Wedding Song,
"Relax, Breathe, I Love You" as she walked down the isle to Aundra!

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May 12, 2001...10-11am

St. Mary's Catholic Church
3001 Ennis at Rosedale,
Houston, Texas 77004



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-Kijana & Aundra Fusilier

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Kijana & Aundra formally "Jumping the Broom" at the end of the ceremony!


 

Kijana & Aundra-All Smiles

Below are the lyrics of the song Kijana wrote for Aundra and sang to him as her brother, El'Ray Wiseman, escorted her down the isle.



Click Here to see Kijana sing her original Wedding Song
as she walked down the isle to Aundra!

RELAX, BREATHE,
I LOVE YOU
Written and sung
by Kijana Wiseman
for Aundra Fusilier
on their Wedding Day,
May 12, 2001

Relax, breathe...
...I love you...
Relax, breathe...
...I'm here
I know you believe
I love you,
So relax, breathe
my dear.

The music of my heart is a song for you,
I hear it every time you are near...
I never thought I'd meet someone quite like you
So I thank God you are here.

I've traveled 'round this world looking for a love
as natural and as tender as a sigh
And now you've come along, sent from God above
to offer me a love that will not die.

Now, relax, breathe...I love you...
Relax, breathe...
...I care
I know you believe I love you,
So relax, breathe...
... my dear.

Because you are my Adam, and I your Eve
And you are the love of my life,
I'll cherish every moment as I receive
Your open heart as I become your wife

I've waited all my life for that someone who
Would treat me as a lover and a friend
Now, deep in my heart I know that it is you
And on this note our new life can begin...

Yes, relax, breathe...
...I love you...
Relax, breathe...
...my dear.
God has conceived this love for you,
So just relax, breathe ...
...I'm here.

© 2001, Kijana Wiseman Fusilier


 

The wedding dance:
Donny Hathaway on CD
singing "You Belong to Me"

 

 

 

 

 


COMMENT FROM AUNDRA:

"I am so lucky, so blessed, to find that one special nugget, that one little diamond, just a happy person, bouncing around with a Houston Press that day...we are divinely
matched ...and now we can live happily ever after."


 

   

When Kijana met Aundra...


Wednesday, August 19, 1998.
6-8pm @ Chianti on South Post Oak Lane,
The Galleria - Houston, Texas, USA

The Houston Symphony and KUHF-FM were hosting one of their special Wednesday night "Classical Encounters for Singles" reception­you know the script­plenty of free food, great live music and folk from the symphony asking you to subscribe. It was noisy and the line at the pasta bar was filled with bright eyes looking for their next challenge while athletic lips attempted to make interesting conversation.

Aundra Fusilier was sitting at the bar, having somehow managed not to get a "HELLO, MY NAME IS..." sticker on his chest. He had come because he was considering buying season tickets to the symphony and had been invited by the salesperson. He was not really talking with anyone, just quietly sitting on his stool, sipping a lemon water, listening to the music and people-watching.

Kijana Wiseman, (also known on the national college circuit as "The Griot") was there for the buffet­but refuses to stand in line for food­so she found herself in a booth chatting with a friend named Judy Roe (whom she had just happened to run into). Judy commented on how delish Aundra looked sitting at the bar, but Kijana pooh-poohed her attempts at match-making, saying she had not come there for that. After Judy left in search of more sparkling conversation, Kijana picked up a copy of the Houston Press, and began to read while sipping her third glass of tonic water disguised in a huge double-martini glass (so no one would try to buy her a "real" drink).

There was nothing really riveting in the paper, but as Kijana started to leave, she noticed that the line at the pasta buffet had died and the quartet was playing a familiar tune. She made a small plate and was humming with the next tune when "the most beautiful bass-baritone voice in the world" said from behind her shoulder "Mmmmmm...that looks tasty."

Kijana turned and looked up. There, 6 inches from her face, were the deep dark brown eyes of the man of her dreams, smiling softly and gazing romantically ...at the food on her plate.


So she fed him. And they talked. They talked for 5 hours, closing down Chianti's, Eat Z's across the street and finally the parking lot at 1am.

"That night," said Kijana, "the synergy was like no other first date in our lives--and we're not teenagers, so that says a lot! It was like we had known each other all our lives--strange, a bit scary-- and wonderfully familiar. Divine guidance."

On her way home, Kijana called her mother, Mary Wiseman and told her "I know the man I'm going to marry!" ...then proceeded to tell her all about Aundra--how he grew up in Kashmere Gardens, less than a mile from her mom's house; how he liked classical music and was a former football player with St. Thomas High then for the University of South Carolina while earning a degree in business; how he was an IRS auditor and how--like her-- he was the eldest in his family and how, like her, he was also in Chianti's bar drinking water instead of alcohol.

Twenty minutes later--when Mrs. Wiseman could get a word in--she agreed that Aundra did indeed sound exceptional. But she was surprised that Kijana hadn't talked about marriage--or even mentioned anyone named Aundra at all "...and you usually tell me everything!" ...so she asked how long they had known each other.

You can imagine her surprise when Kijana told her that they had just met 5 hours ago! Mary's protestations for caution, however, were countered by Kijana reminding her that her father, El'Ray Wiseman, had announced that Mary was the woman he was going to marry--while he was shaking her hand as her uncle Henry introduced them.

"I guess I'm like my daddy." Kijana shrugged as she got off the cellphone. "I can't explain it. He is the one. I just know, and if I can't marry him, I want to marry someone just like him!"

 

  

Shown at the alter with their mothers...
Mary Helen Wiseman and Leocadia Fusilier
 

  

 

Posing at the reception with Aundra's cousin Kathy and Aunt Theresa

 

 

Kijana walking down the aisle singing "Relax, Breathe, I Love You" while on the arm of her brother, El'Ray Wiseman, II.

 

 

 

On the steps of the Wortham's Grand Tier.


Nuptial Facts:

 THE WEDDING...

 

 

THE WEDDING ATTIRE: African with Americo-Carrib-Mediterranean (think island) accents. The wedding colors were white and gold. The Wedding ceremony at St. Mary's Catholic Church was open to anyone who would was a friend of the familys' and would like to attend.

Kijana wore a white silk "Majesty" gown with extensive ivory beading and a laced hem that continues into the train. On her head was a white silk headtie (gele). Aundra was dressed in a elaborate white tunic with a gold and black, Nigerian royal hat and sash. The bridesmaids and groomsmen wore Pakistani cotton unisex outfits from Cultural Concepts: bright yellow for the ladies and ivory for the men.

   

 

 

Music for the ceremony was provided by classical pianist Janie Frazier. Music for the bride's march featured Janie accompanying Kijana as she came down the aisle singing "Relax, Breathe, I Love You" the song Kijana wrote and debuted at the wedding as a dedication to Aundra (see lyrics above).

   

 

THE WORTHAM RECEPTION:

Though the wedding was open to the public, the reception on the Grand Tier of Houston's ornate opera house, The Wortham Center, was private and by invitation only. The wedded couple greeted their guests as they made a dramatic entrance down the grand stairway, stopping briefly to wave royally to everyone present. The wedding dance was Donny Hathaway singing "You Belong to Me" and live music for the reception was provided by Jawad.

Since Jawad and Kijana have toured the college circuit together, at one point, Kijana joined him to sing "Summertime," "On a Clear Day" and "God Bless the Child." Kijana then repeated a performance of "Relax, Breathe, I Love You" for those who could make the reception, but missed the wedding.


THE HONEYMOON: Two weeks in Aruba & one week in Trinidad

WEDDING REGISTRY: Bank of America
Kijana and Aundra have just about 2 (and in some cases, 3) of everything they need and
asked that well-wishers not buy them gifts. Instead, they asked that they contribute to the cost of their dream honeymoon
.

With the gifts, received, they purchased their honeymoon suite in Aruba: See photos of their timeshare here

Mailing Address
Aundra Fusilier / Kijana Wiseman Fusilier

2601 Arbor, Houston, Texas 77004

For more information: 713-521-0900 .....fax: 713-524-7599 or via email.