News from Auburn: Thurs October 23, 2008


In the last newsletter I wrote that I had an uneventful week.  Oops ...

Health update
As I wrote last week, I was weaned off of steroids.  Last Friday was my last dose.  Unfortunately, beginning last Friday, I began to have symptoms that reminded me of when I had walking pneumonia back in 6th grade.  On Tuesday the symptoms were so bad that I went to my primary doctor, who promptly admitted me to the hospital.

I was visited by three doctors on my first morning in the hospital.  Their consensus is that
- I do not have pneumonia.  
- I most likely have pneumonitis, whose untreated symptoms are consistent with what I experienced Friday-Tuesday.
- Pneumonitis requires weeks to months to heal; steroids are needed in the meantime.
Conclusion: I'm back on steroids, and so the PFT (lung test) and the Bone Marrow Transplant procedures are on hold for awhile.

However, I can breathe now, so that's good.  I'm still getting a CT scan on Nov 4 to track tumor size.  At least one doctor suspects that the tumor is dead because the symptoms associated with a growing tumor haven't shown up yet.  We can't verify that with a PET scan at this time because both tumor cells and inflamed tissue cells have higher glucose uptake; they're not distinguishable.  

Right now the doctor expects to send me home on Saturday afternoon.  This afternoon I was able to walk several laps of my hospital room.  Still on oxygen, but I didn't need to rest.  This is a big improvement compared to Tuesday, when I was afraid that I'd  pass out from coughing.

We'll wait to see what the future holds!

The news
My friend since first grade, Sean, came to visit me over the weekend.  We don't get to see each other nearly as much as we'd like, but Sean's been there for us throughout our crises of this decade - he even came to my brother's  memorial service in Atlanta!  I have several other friends from home who want to visit here; my schedule has been and continues to be so variable that it's hard for me to tell someone when it's safe to plan to travel here!  Viva and I am very grateful for the devotion of all of our friends, new and old(er), near and far.

Adam wrote on his blog this week that he expects his first college  "B" this semester.  Kayla says that "B's are the home-schooler's failure."  Sheesh, my kids are more committed perfectionists than I am!  [I'm not convinced that Adam's right, but on the other hand, even with B's his  GPA will still be much better than mine was!]

Kayla sent me this text message: I'm doing some research.  There's a new pizza place downtown that has a thick crust.  I'll report back once I get a quality rating on it.  Those of you who have tasted Papa Dell's with me will understand the importance of this investigation.  I'll let you know what we find out.

The humor
A couple of conversations I had this week made me laugh, especially taken in tandem.

Which medical procedure should I pursue?
Doctor a couple of patients I've treated had a similar experience to yours.  In fact they weren't able to get a bone marrow transplant and were told they didn't have much time left.  That was 10 years ago and I still see them.
Me  Well, if those guys can do it, then there's hope for me, right?
Doctor They weren't guys, they were women.
Me  Hey, that means that I'm going for the wrong procedure!  I don't need a bone marrow transplant, I need a sex change!

Later in the day:
Viva (After I told her this story) When men get a sex change, to they get common sense too?

Ouch.

Are you sure?
I've noted in the past that I often have odd conversations with Viva, her friends, and other women I meet.  The conversations have the pattern:

Woman (asks question about something I may want or prefer)
Me (I give an honest answer to question)
Woman (is apparently unsatisfied with my answer; says some thing like "are you sure?" or offers other choices)
If my opinion doesn't matter, then why do they ask?

Apparently these strange conversations get amplified when dealing with nurses.  Here are three examples:

At the oncologist's office in Auburn I was wheeled just outside the clinic entrance where Viva was going to come to meet me.
Nurse Is it too hot out here?  I can wheel you inside until she comes back.
Me I'm just fine.  It feels good here.
Nurse Are you sure?
Me I only answer each question once.

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At the hospital admitting area One of Viva's co-workers came out and thought that I was cold beneath a blanket Viva  had brought to me.
Nurse Would you like me to bring another blanket?
Me No, I'm fine.  [Viva says "You were shivering under the one blanket!"]
Nurse Are you sure?
Me (decided not to say anything; she didn't know me and she's Viva's friend)
Nurse I'm going to get you one.  (she came back with two - and they were very toasty and warm!)

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In my hospital room
Nurse You only have one pillow and it doesn't look comfortable.  Would you like another one?
Me No, I'm fine.
Nurse Are you sure?  I'm going to get you one.
Me (I related the two conversations above to her)
Nurse Ok, I am definitely NOT going to get you another pillow, even if you ask.  (We laughed)

Posted: Thu - October 23, 2008 at 04:52 PM           | |


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