Rules for Wrestling Coaches

by Greg DeMarco

#1 - If your team has problems, it's YOUR fault!

"Find your own self in anything that goes bad. It's awfully easy to mouth off at your staff or chew out players, but if it's bad, and you're the head coach, you're responsible. If we have an intercepted pass, I threw it. I'm the head coach. If we get a punt blocked, I caused it. A bad practice, a bad game, it's up to the head coach to assume his responsibility." - Paul "Bear" Bryant

This might be the most important rule for it gives you the power to improve your team or program. You see, if you believe that you're the CAUSE for all of your team's failures, it logically follows that you can also be the CURE! So don't blame any one else, heap all of it on yourself and two things will happen: You'll lose lots of sleep trying to figure out how to improve things and your team will get better! Down deep, the athletes know that problems and losses aren't always the coach's fault, and they will work hard for the coach who takes responsibility.

#2 - If your team has success, give ALL credit to your athletes, assistant coaches, administration and parents!

"If anything goes bad, I did it... If anything goes really good, then they (athletes, assistant coaches, parents, administration) did it. That's all it takes to get people to win football games for you." - Paul "Bear" Bryant

Jim Collins in his book "From Good to Great" describes the first two rules as the Window and Mirror Attitudes. Great leaders look out the window to give credit to factors outside themselves when things go well and, if they cannot find a specific person to give credit to, they credit good luck. On the other hand, they look in the mirror to take personal responsibility when things go poorly, never blaming other people, external factors or bad luck.

#3 - "You should strive to make EVERY kid in your program the best wrestler and person he can be." - Ray Nunamaker, former wrestling coach Nazareth High School, PA

This rule is related to your philosophy of coaching. While many coaches don't spend much time pondering this aspect of sport, make no mistake about it, this is the most important component of coaching! Why? Because everything you do from scheduling to practice is determined by your philosophy, whether you are conscious of it or not.

One of the most important aspects of your philosophy is whether your program is going to be a pump or filter. If your emphasis is on winning than you'll probably weed or filter out those kids that can't be starters. You'll start the season with 45 wrestlers and end up with 15.

Other programs try to pump up or build up every kid in the program, starters and non-starters. Their goal is to provide EVERY kid on the team with the best in terms of instruction, opportunities, conditioning, schedule, philosophy, etc. They start the year with 45 kids and end with 48! It is our belief that from the high school level on down programs should have this "pump" philosophy.

#4 - Coaching - It's ALL about what the kids LEARN!

See "Coaches Never Lose" for more insight.

#5 - Don't make the mistake of thinking that all your wrestlers are as motivated as you were at the peak of your competitive career.

Think back to when you STARTED wrestling. Kids come out for the sport for a wide variety of reasons and few of them are ready and willing to train hard.

#6 - If you think ONE wrestler MIGHT be more motivated by some action, DO it!

Disclaimer: common sense must prevail here. Don't go crazy! Also, keep in mind that it is difficult to have one thing or action motivate all your wrestlers. A "shotgun" approach is more effective. You need to do a 1,000 things, some big and some small, to ensure most of your wrestlers will be motivated most of the time. For ideas on motivating your wrestlers read these articles: Challenge, Achievement, Recognition and Offseason Program.

#7 - If you practice, you wrestle.

This rule is the key to keeping kids on your team. Your greatest priority should be to get matches for all your wrestlers. Do what you have to do, but get them matches. You could over schedule, enter two different tournaments the same day, go to tournaments that permit unlimited entries or perhaps enter two teams in the same tournament. Wrestlers are like foreign languages and muscles: Use them or lose them!

#8 - It takes a hundred GOOD people to make a GREAT program.

There's a lot to this rule. First, you can't do it alone, nor do you want to! (See Coaching Duties for all the "its" that need to be done). While the more you do, the better your program will be, they don't have to be done by the coaches. Get other people such as students, teachers, administrators, managers, parents or fans to do them. They will not only feel a sense of accomplishment, but will become your most avid fans. Coaches tend to try to do it all because it takes time to train people to do these tasks and coaches tend to have a "If-you-want-it-done-right-do-it-yourself" attitude. Do as much of the training before the season starts, as time is at a premium once the season begins! It takes a 100 good people to make a great program. You're #100; now you've got 99 more to go!

#9 - Never have more than nine rules!


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