Tue - December 23, 2003

More Pictures of Little Freida (Frieda), Thanks Judie


What a Great Christmas Present to get to discover old pictures of me I've never seen before with people who loved me very much. But I was to young to remember!


Posted at 02:21 PM    

Mon - December 8, 2003

My Aunt Dorothy from Marville Tennessee is soooo sweet!


This afternoon I talked to my fathers sister in Maryville Tennessee. She told me stories about my mother and father. It's so nice to have talked with her. She reminded me of Sally Fields in the movie Norma Rae. She is 80 years old and tough as nails. She had six children and many grandchildren. In case you haven't been following, my mom and dad were divorced when I was two and all mom's relatives had died young. It was just me and her.

I was raised as an only child and haven't seen or talked to any relatives for over 50 years. A few months ago I found my half brother's Jerry phone number back in Davenport, Iowa and called him. That was the beginning of discovering a huge wonderful family. Since dad married 5 times I have found that I have many brothers and sisters, aunts and uncles and more. Everyweek I get new pictures and talk with a new relative. Wow, what an adventure! I get to discover family! One moment no relatives to the next moment full of family! I love it!
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Posted at 10:43 PM    

Sun - November 16, 2003

Pictures of me when I was little, that I have never seen before!


Thanks Julie! My newly discovered sister. I must say that these picture made me cry. I don't remember anything about taking these pictures or my (our) dad being there. I think we were all soooo cute and loved very much by Grandma, Grandpa and Dad. These picture comfort me and let the sad little girl I was know it's okay now.

It wasn't till I talked to Judie that I realized that after mom and dad were divorced that my mom took out a restraining order against grandma, grandpa and dad. I remember her saying they were trying to kidnap me. That's why everyone stopped coming around. Divorce and all the craziness that goes with it can hurt. Can hurt children! Who's fault was it, Moms, Dads, Grandparents, mine, yours, who really knows and who cares now? At 56 I think the lesson that I have learned is, that hurting when you are a child is somehow passed on one way or another. Creativity is the ability to bring something new into existence, by seeing things in a new way. Something new has happened to me and I hope to change the way I see the pass into more of the truth. We can know parts of the truth about our past but it is unlikely that we will know all of it. I just know that in the last few months since I have discovered you my sisters and brothers my life is better. I feel more loved and having you in my life I have you to love back. This is going to be a good Thanksgiving!


Me and Dad Judie, Freida (me), Mary, Jerry



Dad (Don't know who these kids are yet? Grandpa, Grandma, ?, Me, Dad

Posted at 08:18 PM    

Tue - November 11, 2003

Look at these cute relatives of mine! Lindsey and Grant!


What till you see Lindsey's drawings! She is sooooo talented. She's going to be some awesome, famous artist soon! She is such a delight! Grant and I are going to build a huge amusement park on the computer some day. He makes funny faces! Are they adorable or what? I Love You Kids!





Wow, what great kids you are! I can hardly wait to get your drawings and other art work in the snail mail!

Posted at 09:50 PM    

Mon - November 3, 2003

Ha! Ha! Ha! My wild and crazy niece Kathie on Halloween!



I like you! You are spirited! What great outfits! I think that guy above is a little old for you, don't you think? hehe

Posted at 12:58 PM    

Sat - November 1, 2003

Hello To Another Cool Sister


What a joy it is to know I have a warm and loving family happy to hear from me!

Today I received a message from another sister Julie.

"Hi Freida,
This is Julie one of the sisters. When I hard about you, I have been praying someday we will find you. I have pictures of you, not many. I got them from Mary. I will try to send some pictures email. I heard you live in California, boy I which I knew that when I lived there back in the 60's and 70's. Our brother Herb still lives there. He lives in Monrovia near pasadena.  I am Married and live in Decatur, Ill. I have 3 sons and a daughter-in-law. Their names are Alan, Josh, & Jonathan and Josh's wife is Staci. I will get some pic sent. I have a little trouble with sending, I will get my husband to help. Well have to go know. Write soon can't wait to hear from you."
Julie

She also sent me this cute Girlfriends link! Very sweet! I'm so excited to be able to connect with the family. Thank you all for your kindness!

http://home.fuse.net/mhmiller/girlfriends.html

Posted at 08:16 AM    

Sun - October 26, 2003

From my new niece whom I already love very much! ... Hi Aunt Frieda! (Judies daughter Kathie)


Hello!!!!
I am soooo happy you and my mom have finally reunited. I know over the last 15 years or so since she's been finding all her brothers and sisters she's felt more complete. As I can imagine all of you do.

Here is a picture of Lindsey (11) and Grant (9)







Gee Whiz, Nobody ever called me Aunt Freida before. I love it! I Love You, Kids! Let's email a lot! I went to Branson, Missouri a couple of years ago. Probably drove right past you.

Posted at 04:59 PM    

Fri - October 24, 2003

My Lost Family for 50 Years Unite!


A simple phone call and I found out that I had a huge family after living a life of as an only child.

50 years, wow, has it really been that long. What happened? How'd I get so old? 56 now hair gray, overweight. Is that me in the mirror? The word life is short suddenly means more today.

It's time to make that call to see if I can try to reconnect to my Iowa family. I found my brothers phone number on the Internet (White Pages) and left him a message. He called back and said Freida, "Where have you been?" Judie has even been on TV looking for you. She was on the Maury Povitch show looking for all missing brothers and sisters and found them all but you. I'm so glad you called". I must say that his kindness overwhelmed me. He called my sister Mary and she called Judie. Judie was so happy to hear from me too. I like Judie! She is tough like me! he-he We have a lot in common. I'll talk about her has time goes by. Here's a little history:

My mother and father were divorced when I was about 2 years old. I never had much contact with my fathers side of the family. My mothers side of the family had mostly died early. Grandparents on my mother side were entrepreneurs back in Davenport, Iowa. They left my mom a little money and that's how we survived. I was the only child between my mom (Emma) and dad (Herbert). Some day I find out more info about my mother's side of the family.

My father's side of the family is huge. He married 5 times and had lots of kids. My mom was the second wife. I was named after my grandmother Freida. So I find now I have lots of half sisters and brothers. I remember 3 of them a little and never new some of them existed. I found out that my father had brothers and sisters.

My (I mean our) father died when I was about 13. Then we really lost contact. My mother and I moved to California in 1964 when I was about 16 and after that lost contact.

And then life goes on. Oh, every once in a while I'd think about my sister Judie, Mary and Jerry but I figured they probably didn't know of me or even remember me since I was around 7 or 8 the last time I saw them. I remember my Grandma Freida as a sweet woman who's words to me are so clear. "I love you Freida." I found out she died about 5 years ago. See, now I will never get to know her. Waiting. Why did I wait so long? hmmmm I don't know.

Although I tried in around 1973 to make contact it didn't work out so I just dropped the whole idea. But now I have a lot of catching up to do!

I love you Judie for trying so hard all these years to find me and keeping the photos of me when I was little! And you Jerry for giving me a very sweet welcome back into the family. What a great video you took of Davenport and you singing. I think your great and look forward to meeting you and chatting with you again soon.

I love you newly found family!
Freida

Posted at 04:04 AM    


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