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Published On: Jan 25, 2007 12:54 PM
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DiaBlogue<A>: Of Anger, Hatred, and Love
Dear
Alan,In addition to the "obvious" confusions identified in my last post,
your last post touched on another topic that has long
puzzled
me:I have,
for instance, described
universal
utilitarianism
(or at least my understanding of it) as being incomplete since it "does not
reflect our intuitions about how to treat those who mistreat
others."Specifically, you were
referring to your assertion of UU as metric, where you
said:His
suggestion to prevent suffering before increasing happiness, while helpful for
situations involving people choosing to act ethically, does not reflect our
intuitions about how to treat those who mistreat others. That is, causing some
amount of suffering to those that act unethically (whether as punishment,
deterrent or simply protection from future harm) is not allowed under the
simplest reading of the definition of UU, and I do not recall this being
addressed in anything that Ebon Muse has written (that I have read). In this
respect, UU as formulated may be
incomplete.I agree. In fact, this
is the same incompleteness that I see in the various humanistic systems you've alluded to. However -- lest you think I'm only
picking on you :-) -- I also feel that most deistic and theistic formulations
suffer from the same limitation.On the
flip side, this means that if we can appropriately characterize and remedy this
lack, we may be able to resolve several long-running conundrums that have
troubled not just us, but philosophers and moralists through the
ages!To do that, though, I believe we
first need to deal with anger...
For purposes of this discussion, I suggest
defining anger as "the desire to punish
those we believe did (or will) mistreat those we
love" -- including, but not limited to,
ourselves.This may not be quite the
same as your
"intuition about how
to treat those who mistreat others" -- but it
is mine. :-) At any rate, you're welcome to substitute a different
term/definition, but I hope the general concept is the same. In particular, you
noted in that same post that
"Emotion has its
place" and it seems only fair to include antipathy along with
empathy.Given that, we can ask the
question: what is our moral obligation towards those who mistreat others, and
how is that reconciled with our intuition/anger? Historically, I see several
possible strategies.0.
DenialIn modern times, this seems
by far the most popular, at least in practice -- and often in theory. In the
eighties, there were many Christian books that explicitly denied that human
anger was at all valid. No anger, no moral tension between our "intuition" and
the Christian imperative to love. Nice and simple, but ultimately
disastrous.Today, I would say most
leading Christian authors (e.g., Cloud & Townsend, Crabb, Anderson) recognize the value and legitimacy of
anger, though obviously there's still a lot of (what I consider) backward
thinking in our churches.But what
Christians do explicitly, it seems that atheists tend do implicitly. I have yet
to see an atheistic system of ethics that even attempts to address the question
of anger and antipathy (except as in
II,
below). If you could find such a system -- especially one you agree with --
that would be most
enlightening.I.
HatredThe second approach I've
seen to dealing with anger is what I might call "just hatred." This view
accepts the fact that in order to protect what is good and loved, we need to
hate what is evil and threatening. Thus, anger is not bad but good, though it
obviously needs to be refined to focus on what is truly evil. While at one
level this hatred is semi-condoned as a "necessary evil" in order to survive in
an imperfect world, at another it is celebrated as heroic: to give oneself to
the destruction of virtue's enemies, no matter the cost, is -- in this view --
the ultimately moral choice.While very
few people explicitly espouse this doctrine in these terms, I believe its tenets
are widely (if implicitly) shared across many communities. Many traditional
societies embrace it under a so-called "eye-for-an-eye" morality, others merely
practice it in scholarly form: what Peter Wagner called The First Rule of Christian
Debate.While perhaps
distasteful to modern ears, proponents would argue that to deny "just hatred" --
the need to focus on those who would do us harm -- is tantamount to ignoring our
very real enemies. There's an old saying I just learned a few months
ago: Your friend is someone
who -- no matter what bad they do -- you seek the
good. Your enemy is someone
who -- no matter what good they do -- you seek the
bad.If it is true that only the paranoid survive, isn't
such
hatred essential in order for any good to
exist in the world? Certainly, if one is working from the basis of evolutionary morality, it seems hard to argue
otherwise.II.
DispassionOf course, some do. :-)
Philosophers and mystics throughout history have bemoaned the practice of such
hatred as i) endemic to humanity, ii) responsible for the lion's share of human
misery. The usual response is to finger emotions/desire as the ultimate
culprit, and preach the importance of intellectual or spiritual transcendence.
This is not merely for the sake of social good, but a belief that only a
sufficiently "pure" mind can rightly apprehend truth. This is more or less the
route taken by objectivist ethics -- especially as practiced
by Libertarians who consider compassion as dangerous as anger!
To be sure, transcending emotion has
some appeal, in terms of simplicity and high-mindedness. However, it appears
incompatible with our shared understanding that empathy -- and thus, emotional
perception in general -- is an important part of ethics. Plus, claims that only
an enlightened few can possibly understand truth feels a bit self-justifying; at
least without a way for outside observers to reliably determine
who
is enlightened. :-)On the other hand,
this approach does (at least in principle) avoid the head-in-the-sand approach
of (0), in that from a position of dispassionate analysis one is (in theory)
free to judge both our friends and our enemies with perfect truth and justice,
and act accordingly.III.
Forgiveness and LoveThis brings us
to the final option (that I know of), which is that our fundamental moral
obligation to love (and promote happiness) extends even to our enemies. Thus --
while anger is a natural, legitimate, and healthy reaction to externally-caused
pain -- hatred and bitterness are emphatically
not. In
other words, we must forgive our enemies, including those who have truly (and
deeply!) wronged us.Proponents of this
view would agree with (II) that hatred clouds our minds and leads to great evil.
However, they go beyond that in claiming that the only way to know truth --
including the truth about our enemies! -- is to love. In addition, rather than
claiming transcendent virtue as the basis for judging our enemies, it is a
recognition of our own folly and weakness that motivates forgiveness. And that
it is only when we love our neighbor (including enemies) as ourselves that we
can justly judge them -- by the same standard we judge ourselves, and invite
them to judge us.As you've no doubt
guessed, I subscribe to (III). However, I freely admit that this is a minority
view. As far as I know, Christianity is the only moral system that commands us
to love and forgive our enemies -- and even many Christians would disagree with
what I've written here. And hell, even I have a hard time living up to what I
say I believe.That said, I firmly
believe that (III) is the option best able to satisfy our UU metric of
"maximizing happiness and minimizing suffering." And that while difficult, it
is not impossible to grow in our ability to forgive those who've hurt us -- at
least under the right conditions (which we can discuss at some later time).
At any rate, it is the only way I know
to truly deal with
anger.How about you, Alan?
How would you deal with anger, hatred, and enemies? Or do
you?Love,Ernie
Posted: Wed - January 24, 2007 at 08:10 AM
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