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Grace's adventures with our family in the United States continue on her new web site.
Click here to see what she is up to now. |
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October was a busy and fun month with getting a schedule in place for Grace and enjoying having her in our family. It's been a big transition for us all but Wendy's parents were here for a couple of weeks to help us through the tough times and to share in the joys of watching Grace become a happy and smiley little girl. It was great to have them here when Wendy had knee surgery toward the end of the month. We wouldn't have managed without them!
Fall has brought many new things for Grace to explore. She wants to pick up every leaf she finds on the grass. She is also exploring our house, new foods, new toys and our dog, Bailey. In fact, her first English word was "bay bay" for Bailey and she uses it for just about anything with fur. She's also gotten to meet lots of family and friends this month. She is such a "people person" and loves to talk and play with everyone. We're proud of our cute girl!
Grace celebrated her first Halloween with us in her ladybug costume. We went to Dave's parents' house and trick-or-treated at Mr. Mac's house and some of their other neighbors. She loved getting candy in her goodie bag and of course, her favorite game was to take it out and put it back in again. She sucked the wrappers but that's as close as she's getting to candy for now! Daddy, however, loves having sweet treats from his sweet, little girl. On the day before Halloween, Grace took her first steps without any helping hands. She giggles and laughs when she runs to Mommy or Daddy since she's so proud of herself. Mommy caught her first steps with her camera. Check them out here.
Of course, the month started off with Grace's first birthday and the pictures that we promised are here.
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Grace and her friend, Dottie. |
Well, it's been a week since we last updated the website and it almost seems to have been a lifetime ago!
We left Guangzhou early on Saturday morning and flew to Hong Kong and on to San Francisco. In San Francisco, we went through Customs and Immigration where Grace officially became a U.S. citizen. Next, we were back on a plane heading home to Dulles. Although we had hoped that she would sleep for most of the flights, Grace was too interested in everything going on around her. She was a good traveller and still in great spirits when we arrived at Dulles to our waiting family and friends. It was so wonderful to see everyone welcoming us back! The posters, balloons, flowers and hugs made us glad to be home again. Grace entertained everyone with her "walking" and her squeaky shoes and hit it off with her cousins right away. You would never have believed that she'd been awake for nearly 27 hours!
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The big welcome at Dulles! |
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Meeting Grandma and Grandpa Gibson. |
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Mommy and Daddy were pretty tired, though. Meg drove us to pick up Bailey from Dave's parents and then, we headed back home to Stafford. Wendy's folks had decorated the house with "Welcome Home, Grace!" and soon, we were all off to bed.
The last few days, we've been helping Grace get used to the twelve hour time difference and building some routine into her day. She is such a good little girl and adapting to all of the changes in stride. She's a big eater and we haven't found much that she doesn't like. Unfortunately for Wendy, two of her least favorites - watermelon and peas - are Grace's favorites. She hasn't had an opportunity to try pickles, ketchup or any of Daddy's other dislikes but we're sure she'll love them, too.
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Grace and Bailey are already good friends. |
Bailey and Grace are quickly becoming friends. They are good with one another and Bailey looks out for her "little sister" by staying in Grace's room during naptime.
Tuesday was a big day since it was Grace's first birthday and her first visit to Dr. Karp, her pediatrician. We met Grammy Major in the morning and she went with us to the doctor's office. Grace is in the 25th percentile for height and not even on the charts for her weight. She is a little peanut!
After the appointment, we went to Grammy and Grampy Major's for lunch and her first birthday party. Grandma and Grandpa Gibson joined us and we had fun with cake and presents!
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| Swinging in Grammy and Grampy Major's backyard and having some fun with Grampy. |
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| Birthday cake and presents! Oh boy! |
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We'll try to get some more photo pages and news posted soon so check back with us.
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Yesterday, we had a restful day and played with Grace in the hotel playroom. In the evening, we went to Beijing Road and checked out more shopping but with a Times Square atmosphere. We ate at Pizza Hut but decided to pass on the special, an eel pizza.
This afternoon, we had our consulate appointment and after a few delays, we had Grace's visa.
This will be our last post on the website since our internet service will end tonight.
See you tomorrow night when we come in to Dulles a little bit after 7 PM!
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We went to the shopping area next to our hotel yesterday afternoon and browsed at some of the beautiful brush paintings.
Later, we headed out to Yuntai Park and its magnificent gardens. The park was decorated for the upcoming national holiday on October 1st and it looked great! We even ran across a few couples taking wedding pictures. This park was much smaller than the one we visited a few days ago but it was beautiful and definitely worth the trip! Photos of our time in the park are here.
We went to dinner at a Thai restaurant called The Banana Leaf and had some wonderful food. There was even entertainment with singing and dancing that started out with, of all things, the Day-O song!
It was nice to have a non-eventful day and take it easy. Grace has had a cold for several days and she needed to relax and get in some good naps.
Today, we have nothing planned and will probably explore some more of Guangzhou.
Tomorrow is our appointment at the U.S. consulate and our group picture. We're going to try to get one with all of the babies!
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Today, we went to a tea house and learned about everything that makes a quality teapot. Did you know that if you cover the steam hole in the lid with your finger, the tea will stop pouring from the spout? Or that the Chinese never make tea without washing the tea leaves first? Just a few of the interesting things we learned today.
After lunch and Grace's nap, we met up with some friends and visited one of Guangzhou's largest parks, Guangzhou Yuexiu Park. It happens to be right across the street from our hotel. The street, however, is very busy and dangerous to cross so we went through the subway station to get to the park. The subway is very modern and clean - not too different from the Washington Metro. The park is enormous and beautiful! We only covered a small portion. It has everything from lakes and gardens to restaurants and an amusement park.
Our pictures from today are here.
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Yesterday was Grace's physical exam and the end of the paperwork required for her U.S. visa. We will have our appointment at the consulate on Thursday morning. Until then, we'll be bonding with our little girl and seeing some more of Guangzhou.
Pictures from yesterday's physical exam and shopping on Shamian Island are here.
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We've been in Guangzhou since Friday evening and need to get you up-to-date on what we've been up to over the last few days.
Grace did wonderfully with her first flight and played the whole trip even though we'd hoped that she'd sleep. The airport in Guangzhou is immense and not all that close to the city so we traveled for some time before we arrived at our hotel. We rode past more skyscrapers, construction and lots of neon. Guangzhou is the fourth largest city in China and like Beijing and Nanchang, it's continuing to grow. It is also the most western city that we've visited and it feels the most like home. As we pulled in to the hotel's entrance, there was a tent with a very surreal event - a Chinese Oktoberfest celebration! Complete with an oompa band and beer flowing freely, we didn't see anyone who wasn't Chinese.
After a dinner of McDonald's, we called it a night. McDonald's has some similar menu items to home but some very different ones, too. We tried something that looked like McNuggets but was made with shrimp. Pretty good, too!
We had nothing scheduled for Saturday since some of the other families wouldn't arrive until later that evening. We decided to take a cab ride to Shamian Island with some friends. The cab ride itself was an experience as we darted around vehicles, buses, bikes and pedestrians. We visited the White Swan Hotel and shopped at the stores nearby until a storm blew up and forced us back into the hotel. All of the clerks and shopkeepers fussed over Grace and gave us special gifts for the "lucky baby".
Sunday, we visited Chen Jia Ci, a temple with large courtyards built by the Chen clan in the late 1800s. The Chen clan were very rich and powerful in China, particularly in Guangzhou. The temple is now a museum dedicated to Chinese art and each building houses amazing examples of wood, bone and ivory carving, furniture, brush painting and embroidery. The courtyards held beautiful bonsai trees and sculptures.
Next, we headed to the Guangzhou Friendship Store, which was much larger and more modern than the one we visited in Beijing. We were able to find a teether and some other things for Grace and stock up on a few groceries, too.
Sunday afternoon brought a "paperwork party" where all the families got together for about two hours to complete the required paperwork for the U.S. consulate. Afterwards, we went to a Japanese steakhouse for dinner.
Our photos from Saturday and Sunday are here.
That brings us to today, Monday. Our morning was free so we took things at a slower pace which was good since Grace is developing a cold. In the afternoon, we headed back to Shamian Island for Grace's physical examination. She did so well! Next, we went back for some more shopping in the White Swan Hotel area that we visited on Saturday.
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Today, Grace continued to warm up to us. We had a fun time playing and she showed off her skill with walking if we hold out two fingers for her to grasp.
Grace, wo ai ni (we love you)! She has really captured our hearts!
Please keep Grace in prayer since she is dealing with constipation and heat rash that are making her fussy and uncomfortable. Mommy and Daddy need prayer, too. Being first time parents, we want her to feel better but we're not sure what to do all of the time. We did, however, find a great Chinese remedy for heat rash that works much better than any of the products that we brought with us.
This morning, we went to a village in a more rural area of Jiangxi. Up to this point, we've been mainly in urban areas. The poverty is pretty severe in parts of the city but it is even worse once you get beyond the city's borders. We believe that Grace's birth parents probably come from a rural village.
Next, we visited some porcelain stores in Nanchang. The Jiangxi province is known for its porcelain and it truly is beautiful. If you hold a piece up to the light, it is so fine and thin that it appears to be transparent. After lunch, we explored some more of Nanchang. We found a tailor that is making matching traditional Chinese outfits for Mommy and Grace. We also visited a grocery store and saw lots of fresh fish, turtles, frogs, snakes, etc. in tanks. The fresh seafood, spread out on ice, also included eels. Much different than in the U.S.!
In the evening, we finished up the last bit of paperwork with the Nanchang notary's office. Tomorrow, we'll recieve Grace's Chinese passport!
We leave tomorrow afternoon for Guangzhou and from what we understand, the flight will be short but we have quite a long drive until we arrive at the hotel. We may be late with getting the website updated.
Our photos from yesterday's visit to the Tengwang Pavillion are here and today's pictures of the village and porcelain shopping are here. |
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Yesterday was a busy day with getting to know Grace. She has a sweet spirit and it's amazing to see her change almost minute by minute. She was a scared little girl when we first met but she has really opened up with us and is smiling and playing now.
We also went to the office of the notary in Nanchang and completed some more paperwork and an interview. It was very quick and painless. Next, we hit one of the local malls and went to Wal-Mart. This store was a Super Wal-Mart and two floors! We picked up some clothes for Grace (very inexpensive here), some Coke Light for Wendy (the only place that we've seen it for sale in Nanchang), and some other odds and ends. The Wal-Mart had lots of products that we'd never seen before including a Icy Mint flavored Sprite and fried rat in the deli section! There was also a KFC in the store which sold buckets of chicken and various Chinese specialties as well. When we got back to the hotel, we decided to take a break from Chinese food and ordered out from Pizza Hut.
There's a photo album from yesterday here.
 Today, we explored some more of Nanchang. We went to the Tengwang Pavilion, which is just down the street from our hotel. The first tower was built on this site over a thousand years ago. The tower has been destroyed over twenty-five times and rebuilt, most recently in 1989. We went the top floor where we saw a short program of traditional music and dance. Afterward, we checked out the view from the balconies where we could see just how big this city is. On the other side of the Gan Jiang river, Jiangxi's major river, we could see lots more construction. As in Beijing, the skyline is filled with cranes erecting tall buildings. In the river below, we saw eveything from barges to small fishing boats.
We came back to the hotel for Grace's nap and instead had a fun playtime with her. She is just opening up to us more and more each day! We're having fun watching the changes.
Check out some video of Grace here. It is about a minute and half long, so it may take some time to download.
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Gotcha Day Pictures
Click here for some more pictures of yesterday's big day. |
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We flew to Nanchang this morning and arrived at our hotel around 2:30 this afternoon. A little bit after 4:00, we got Grace and she is a precious little girl! We are so grateful and blessed to be her parents. It's been an emotional day and we are doing well. Grace is sound asleep now. We'll post more tomorrow when we can take some more time. Enjoy these pictures for now.
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Zhong qui jie kuaz le! Happy Mooncake Day! Today is the Moon Festival and everyone celebrates by giving and eating mooncakes. The celebration happens each year on the fifteenth day of the eighth month of the Chinese lunar calendar.
This morning, we went to church at Beijing International Christian Fellowship (BICF) and the worship service was very similar to what we are used to at Grace Church of Fredericksburg and Sovereign Grace Church of Fairfax. A band from Korea shared some special music during communion and led us in worship with "Open the Eyes of My Heart, Lord". Jerry Wunder preached about the influence we can have on the world around us with our life, with our family. The unusual thing about this church is that it ministers to non-Chinese nationals only. The congregation was made up of people from around the world who live and work in Beijing. Our Chinese guides were not allowed to attend with us since they were restricted.
After church we went to a jade factory where we learned how to identify authentic jade. We also watched as carvers created some amazing pieces.
We ate a wonderful Chinese lunch and spent some time at the Friendship Store, a huge place that is attached to a Cloissoné factory.
Next, we were off to see a portion of the Great Wall of China. What an amazing sight! Please check our pictures of the Wall and our other adventures here.
We left the Wall and drove through Beijing on the way to dinner. The city is growing quickly and has massive construction projects everywhere you look. It's not unusual to see the skyline broken by a dozen or more cranes.
We had Peking duck for dinner and rushed off to a theater to see an amazing acrobatic show. Another full day!
Tomorrow morning, we'll fly to Nanchang and finally get to hold Grace! We can't wait!
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We met up with most of the families traveling with us - 33 total and 17 of those families will be coming with us to Nanchang. The Nanchang group is the largest one that AWAA has ever had going to one province!
Our touring in China began with Tian'anmen Square. On October 1, 1949, over a million people were crowded into this area which was designed to hold half of that amount. They saw Chairman Mao Zedong raise the red flag and proclaim officially the foundation of the People's Republic of China. There was a lot of work going on in the square to prepare it for the October 1st holiday and the Summer Olympics games in 2008.
Next, we headed across the street to the Forbidden City. The huge complex is also know as the Imperial Palace and it includes about 9,000 rooms. It's incredible! There is even a canal that the emperor could use to travel the fourteen miles to the Summer Palace.
We traveled to the Summer Palace by bus, rather than boat, after a Chinese lunch. Three quarters of it is a lake and the remaining area is covered with amazing gardens and palaces.
Next, we went to the government-run pearl shop and silk factory.
Check out pictures of today's adventures here.
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We arrived in Beijing this afternoon and met up with our guides, Amy (in center with blue shirt) and Lineker. After checking into our hotel, we explored a little bit of the area nearby. We shopped for a few things at Carrefour (similar to Wal-Mart) and we were happy to find Coke Light for Wendy. We'll be heading out to be tourists tomorrow morning.
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We're official! We have our travel dates, airline tickets and consulate appointment. We're ready to go get Grace!
Here's our itinerary:
Thursday morning, September 15 |
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Leave Dulles |
Friday afternoon,
September 16 |
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Arrive in Beijing |
Monday morning,
September 19 |
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Fly to Nanchang
Meet Grace and start our lives together! |
Friday afternoon,
September 23 |
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Fly to Guangzhou |
Thursday morning,
September 29 |
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Consulate appointment at 9:30 A.M. |
Saturday morning,
October 1 |
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Fly to Hong Kong and then, on to home! We should arrive at Dulles around 7:00 P.M. |
We're almost there. Grace, we're coming to get you, sweetheart!
An interesting article about Chinese adoption can be found here in The Oklahoman.
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We put the finishing touches on Grace's room this past week. The mural is done. We are thinking that we might add more characters as Grace gets older. Either for her "gotcha" day or her birthday. The last little bit to be painted were the princesses, Belle, Cinderella and Aurora. The pixie dust around them is painted with glow-in-the-dark paint and it's fun to look in the room when the lights are out!
Next, we hung Tinkerbell, Peter Pan, Wendy, John and Michael from the ceiling!
We assembled and arranged the crib, glider and nightstand. God has really blessed us with some great bargains as we furnished the room! We finished up by baby-proofing the nursery and hanging the bulletin board that Wendy created with family photos and of course, lots of ladybugs!
Check out more photos of the nursery here.
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Meg and Dan welcomed the newest addition to their family, Ruth Ellen, this morning. Mom and Dad Gibson were also there to see her birth. Grandpa says that he heard her first words, "Hi, Grandpa!" already. She is a cutie! Both Meg and Ruth are doing well.
God has richly blessed our families over the past few days!
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Here she is at last! This beautiful girl is our daughter!
We are pleased to announce the addition of Grace Ellen Mengqing Major to our family!
We went to the AWAA offices this afternoon to meet with Allison and see the pictures. We also had our nieces, Victoria and Emmy, with us since their mommy was in the hospital delivering their new baby sister, Ruth. What a day this has been!
We posted an announcement for Grace here.
Photos from our day at AWAA and more photos of Grace are here.
We went to visit Grampy Major at his work after our trip to AWAA. He was excited about Grace and like the rest of us, he is anxious to meet her. Next, we stopped by Grammy Major at her work. She was already a proud grandmother and showed off the pictures of Grace to her friends at work. She also looked over the medical report with one of the pediatricians in her office and Grace appears to be quite healthy and well. We were pleased to hear that! Grammy surprised us with a beautiful rose plant that we can plant in our yard. It will be Grace's Rose.
Jeannine called while we were heading home and invited us for dinner. We got to share the pictures of our cutie with the Gibson side of the family. John even thinks that Grace and Wendy look a little bit alike!
Mom and Dad Gibson had come up to be with Meg and help her with baby Ruth. When we arrived home, they had just gotten home from the hospital. It was now their turn to see the pictures of another new granddaughter and to celebrate with us!
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Yippee! We received our referral today!
Allison from America World Adoption Association(AWAA) left a message for me at work. When I received the message, I called Wendy and we made a conference call to Allison so that we could hear the exciting news together. Allison told us that we had a beautiful daughter. Her Chinese name is Fu Mengqing. She is in foster care in the Jiangxi Province of China. Her birth date is October 4, 2004. She weighed 6 kg. and was 64 cm. long at her six month checkup in April, 2005.
We are overjoyed and praise God for all that He is doing to create our family!
Tomorrow, we are going to the AWAA offices to get photos of our little girl and her translated medical report.
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We are starting our web journal with a ladybug and a red thread to follow as we journey toward bringing Grace, our daughter, home from China.
Ladybugs are a lucky charm and are considered a sign of good fortune around the world. They have been chosen as a good luck symbol for families adopting from China.
Chinese folklore says that there are invisible red threads that connect a newborn child's spirit to all the people that will be important in her/his life. As the child grows, the threads shorten to bring these people closer together.
Love, Dave & Wendy Major
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