"Christ's Church is a church for people who don't
like church."
I'll never forget that conversation. I remember it as
if it happened yesterday even though it took place
many years ago. I was talking with someone who was
new to our Christ's Church family. He was rattling
off some of the things that he appreciated about the
way we "do church." He mentioned our accepting
atmosphere, our relaxed, contemporary style. . . and
then he paused for a second and said,
"Christ's
Church is a church for people who don't like
church."
I remember chuckling, because initially, I wasn't
sure whether he was being critical or complimentary.
But he went on to explain that he had never felt at
home in a traditional church setting. He wasn't
knocking the traditional –– but unfortunately, parts
of the traditional had knocked him. He simply wasn't
a 'coat-n-tie' type guy (plus he couldn't afford
one). His longer hair often brought awkward stares.
But oh, what a
heart he had for Jesus!
Saying that we're a church for people who don't like
church is probably a bit of a stretch, but I
understood and appreciated his observation. At
Christ's Church we have always tried to
major on the majors and minor on
the minors. In other words, we don't get too
bent out of shape over non-essential, secondary
issues. More important still, we're interested
in engaging our culture in a relevant way. In
order to reach today's generation, words and
music must be understood.
But having said that, we're not into being "hip" just
for the sake of being hip. In fact, I just read an
excellent article by Ed Stetzer on the dangers of
over emphasizing relevance. He rightly contends that
while relevance can bridge some gaps to the Gospel,
it is only a
tool, not a
goal. How
much is too much? Here are some ways you can know
that relevance has become more important than the
Gospel:
1. If we focus on personal transformation and
not Gospel transformation.
Too often our messages are driven by the steps method
(i.e. five steps toward financial freedom), when
oftentimes these steps have little to do with
Biblical advice on the subject. If this is the case,
you'll find more secular advice than Biblical advice
on certain subjects. It's not that we can't learn
from others in the world; however, the goal of our
churches isn't to simply reflect the culture but to
impact it. The danger of relevance in this area is to
enforce an already narcissistic mentality that
permeates our culture. The consumeristic, me-istic
mindset is thorny ground that threatens to choke out
the Word in people's lives.
2. If your sermons are so practical they lack
any Gospel.
Do not preach any message that would not be true if
Jesus had not died on the cross. It is great to be
practical in what we teach; but, if we hesitate to
share about the work of Christ, what is the eternal
value? Using practical messages can help us share
Biblical truth, but ultimately our goal is that they
leave with the Truth, not just true stuff. The Truth
is the person of Jesus. Think through the inner logic
of Jesus and his very character. How does his
viewpoint - what he really treasured - shine through
here? The very essence of Jesus should waft through
the room during your sermons.
3. If you talk about practical more than you
talk about biblical.
This is more than simply how we preach, it is how we
carry out our duties in the ministry. When sharing
the vision of your church, what is prominent? What do
people walk away with? What strikes them as being at
the very heart of what your ministry is all about?
There are many pastors who have visions of a new
building, higher giving, and so forth. While these
fit practical needs, many focus on them more than we
focus on a Biblical aspect of our faith. You want the
people you are leading to be built on the solid
foundation of God's Word - not the wood, hay, and
stubble that will eventually fade away.
4. If your outreach demeans others that
preach the Gospel.
This shows that your confidence is in your relevance
and not His Gospel. Do not communicate anything that
feeds people's tendency to devalue other churches
that preach the Gospel. There are plenty of churches
today promoting their church by diminishing the
ministry of another. While some of these churches may
be irrelevant to much of the community, we shouldn't
make an extra effort to prove this to the community.
Those churches are probably able to reach some people
you couldn't. We are all on the same team, even if
our methods and styles are very different - so let's
begin to act like it - even when others do not.
5. If your approach makes you the hero and
not Jesus.
It seems that many ministries are driven by
personalities. It is not a good thing that the number
one reason someone stays at a church is because they
like the pastor. It is inevitable that personalities
will drive some ministries, because people will
obviously come to listen to this person. Seek for
ways to promote others and their unique gifts. When
you do so you emphasize the astounding body of Christ
and the phenomenal power that comes when that body is
truly connected and functioning. This brings glory to
Jesus and not you.
6. If "personal evangelism" is an oxymoron at
your church.
Simply put, disciples share their faith. If our goal
is to make disciples, we don't just hope to have
plenty of seats filled on a given weekend at our
church. Instead, we hope to see people respond and be
moved by the Gospel. This is evident in their
personal devotion toward sharing the Good News with
others. Train your people to share their own stories
of encountering Jesus.
7. If "invest and invite" never leads to
evangelize.
Many church structures emphasize to their members to
simply "invest and invite." This is a great strategy
toward getting their friends, families, and neighbors
in the door. But if this is the means to an end, you
might be placing too much emphasis on relevance and
not enough on the Gospel. Once we have invested and
invited, we need to share the Good News with them. If
you are really developing disciples you are training
your people in the full set of discipling skills.
8. If attendance is a greater value than
conversion.
Everyone wants to know numbers. Deep down, many
pastors equate attendance with success. It definitely
does make sense in some ways, but the fastest growing
religion in the world is a works-based falsehood.
Face it, Donald Trump or Madonna can draw a crowd.
Don't be fooled into believing your ability to fill
seats is effecting redemption in others. Numbers can
help us only if we have already defined our win on
the response to the Gospel.
9. If the cross gets less focus than the
church.
Typically, we don't talk about the cross enough. The
cross should be central to the vision and direction
of our churches. Without the cross, none of us would
even be where we are today - and without the cross
our churches will never be where they need to be. We
must lead people to depend on the cross and not our
programs and systems. Help your church learn that the
path to redemption in their own lives and
circumstances can lead straight to the cross. It does
not have to go through a relevant church first.
10. If not offending seekers is more
important than telling the Gospel.
The Gospel is offensive. When it comes down to it,
eventually we're going to have to pull the trigger
and we may end up being the stench of death to
someone. But, if the risk we take is so that they can
hear the truth, we must move forward regardless of
the relational cost. Don't try to sand down the cross
and make it smooth and lightweight. Be "seeker
comprehensible" and quit trying to be driven by
seekers.
The sad truth is that some churches sacrifice their
God given message on the altar of relevance, and the
Gospel is what is seen as irrelevant. We need to
recapture a genuine faith in and love for the Gospel
and a desire to let it do its thing in our
congregation. We can use relevance as a tool to
connect with people, but even the best tool can't do
its work if there is not a clear goal. As my wife
reminds me, there is no point in having that
beautiful yellow miter saw if it is not building
something (like that new swing set she wants built).
Let's be relevant - but let's make sure that
relevance is a tool and not the goal. Relevance is a
tool that helps people to understand the eternal
truths of Christ - that's relevant in this and every
age.
You can read the entire article over at the
Catalyst Blog.