Dr.
Amos E. Friend died on June 11, 1983 at the age of 84 of cancer,
having retired two years previously upon learning of his inoperable
illness. Despite the debilitating effects of his sickness and its
treatment he walked erect and with his accustomed vigor until shortly
before his death, and he never let the grim nature of his affliction
interfere with his love of life.
No
one among my acquaintances had a greater love of life nor a greater
zest for living than Amos Friend, and it radiated to all about him.
His "joie de vivre" was expressed in his great love of travel; for
the pleasures of a good yarn, story or book; for the excitement of
the theater and the concert hall; for the joys of an upland game hunt
or a successful cast into a stream or lake; for the thrills of
roughing it on foot or horseback in the mountains; for a round of
skeet or trap shooting; for a bit of singing; or for an occasional
social game of golf. He was, in many respects, Manchester's "Man for
All Seasons or "Renaissance Man".
Amos
Friend will be remembered by his medical colleagues and his legion of
patients not only for his superb artistry as a physician and surgeon
and for the high esteem in which he was held by his colleagues in his
profession, but also for his endless kindnesses, his never-failing
courtesy, his graciousness and good manners, and for his
thoughtfulness for all at all times. He was a rare man among men!
Though
Amos Friend lived a full four-score and four years and should have
shown some of the effects of the ravages of time, he will always be
remembered as one who was always youthful in appearance, young in his
ideas, interests and activities, and boyish in the sense that he was
constantly seeking and exploring and traveling as befits a boy; a
pleasant paradox that explains his inability to grow old.
A
large unfillable void now exists in our community, for we have lost
"a man to whom was given so much of heaven and so much of
earth".
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