
If you want to use a server that isn't a standard OS X service, you'll need to customize your OS X firewall setup with the port(s) that service uses. You do that by clicking the New button, then selecting Other from the "Port Name" pull-down, and filling in the port number (or range of port numbers) and a description. For example:

Then, locate your new entry in the "Allow" list and check it to open the port(s).
Here's a list of some of the more common ports:
Port Service 3283 Apple Remote Desktop 6346 Gnutella file sharing 6881-6889 BitTorrent file sharing
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