It is always nice to sit down at a bridge table and play with friendly people. Etiquette is generally defined as conventional requirements as to social behavior. The popularity and universality of the game of bridge relies heavily upon the players being well-mannered and courteous. This attitude towards each and every player is expected and should be maintained at all times. Unfortunately, this is not the case. We are only humans with emotions and we can not be self-disciplined at all times under all circumstances.

We have all met those rude and obnoxious players in our bridge past. No one has ever escaped that certain look, that certain irony in the voice, that gesture which disturbs us emotionally and mentally. It is possible that we have been guilty of doing the same. Perhaps we let our emotions get the better of us, and we simply became rude and obnoxious. If we catch ourselves being less than polite, then that is the time to exercise self-discipline. Take a deep breath, go get ourselves a cup of free coffee, or excuse ourselves and make that trip to the bathroom.

Therefore, if we all make that special effort to be courteous to one and all, perhaps the game, the play and the atmosphere can become more enjoyable for one and all.

Following are some articles to look at, read, take to heart, heed and adhere to. Please take the time to read them. Some involve the Laws of Contract Bridge because this part of the game is taken seriously by the sponsoring organizations. The policy of Zero Tolerance has been introduced. There are civilized and heated discussions about this policy. However, using your common sense and courtesy, undermined by reading the following, will permit you to become that nice Bridge Lady or that wonderful Bridge Gentleman.

Concentration - An essential for the Declarer

Conduct - An essential element of behavior at the Bridge Table

Propriety - An article on general manners at the Bridge Table

Zero Tolerance - All about the new policy of ACBL

If you wish to include these features, or any other feature, of the game of bridge in your partnership agreement, then please make certain that the concept is understood by both partners. We hope to meet only nice and polite, courteous and friendly people at the bridge table.