Ahh... complaints. I'm sure there are things
about all of our lives that fail to make us happy or outright frustrate us.
It's nice, sometimes, to wallow in self-pity, or even to whine about things that
we don't like, can't abide, or that make us
miserable.
I'm a perfect example of
this, recently. As just about who knows me is now aware, my current assignment
is in Korea. I also made no secret whatsoever of the fact that I loathed my
last assignment in Korea, and expected nothing better out of this one. People
who were in contact with me when I was stationed in Taegu can confirm this
unhappiness. Hel, look back at the entries from July 04 through November 04,
and you can see a trend of general crankiness -- a lot more rants than usual,
among other things.
But I dye
grass.
There I was, on an airplane,
flying toward the object of my loathing. Most of my books were packed away, and
I'd chosen to carry on Gwyn Jones's A History of the Vikings. Since I'd
just recently completed my visit to the Heavener Rune Stone, I decided to skip
to the chapter about the Viking settlements in the New
World.
Hoo,
boy.
Have you ever looked at the
history of the Greenlandic colonies? Those people lived (well, some of them
did) through some amazingly rough conditions. They rarely or never had enough
food, they were in an on again-off again war with native American populations,
and it was getting colder and colder. The colony was first started in the
900's, and lasted (on and off) until 1500 AD, although what exactly happened to
the last of the settlers is unknown, because by this point they were almost
completely cut off from the entire world, apart from the occasional accidental
visitor.
Hail to the
Greenlanders!
So there I am, on a
climate-controlled airplane, eating an in-flight meal and alternating between
the book and my choice of in-flight movies on my in-seat entertainment system,
and I have the cojones to be angry about going to a place with enough food to
eat, a warm bed, and the ability to make contact with people around the world?
Whoa. It really did hit me like that,
too.
So by the time I landed in Korea
(after landing in Japan to change flights; I really wish I could have stayed in
Japan, but them's the breaks), while my attitude hadn't completely turned
around, it was a lot better about the whole thing. Now that I'm in my quarters
and see that they are not like the shithole I lived in in Taegu, I'm cool about
that as well.
It's like the starving
children in Asia that are supposed to get you to eat your vegetables as a child,
except in this case it worked. Don't get me wrong; there are countless places
I'd rather be than Korea, but it's not as bad as I had anticipated, this time
around, and of course it's nowhere near as bad as the Greenland colonists had
it.
So that's the sum of my wisdom for
today: Got problems? Step back and compare them to Greenland. Do the research
so that you really understand the comparison. Then see if your own issues don't
seem slightly smaller afterward.